Is it normal that crying turns me on?

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So my bf of two years and I broke up a couple days ago. We started our relationship when I was 16, and he was my first bf, my first everything, and I loved him like crazy. As could be expected, after the breakup I have been very depressed. I have spent most of my time holed up in bed sobbing. The funny thing was, this morning, I woke up and started to cry as soon as I remembered where I was in life. As I lay there crying, I started feeling very wet and excited down there, so I masturbated while the tears streamed down. It felt good. Then I kept crying. After about 15 minutes, I started feeling horny again, and masturbated AGAIN. Twice in a row...that's like a record for me! Then, after spending the morning out, I pretended to go take a nap so I could cry some more. I got in bed and started sobbing, and I felt it again--the intense urge to masturbate. Is something wrong with me?

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    I once dated a girl whose mother died, and I found out the day after the mother died she was having sex with her other boyfriend. She was a psychologist, and said that when traumatic things happen (for me I was talking about feeling horny when thinking about an ex and the hurt she caused, not about her mother) that its quite normal to feel horny. The trauma causes a flood of emotional chemicals inside the brain, and the body tries to get back to normal. The brain feels that flooding it with orgasm chemical (I know I'm keeping this basic) will help "flush" out the bad.

    So you just had something very traumatic happen. Your body is trying to cheer itself up. Perfectly normal.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Thanks, very helpful and insightful comment. I was cringing because I thought everyone was going to be saying what a twisted perv I was.

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    • TerryVie
      12 years ago

      wow. thats smart and makes sense. thanks for teaching me something new.(i was coming back to this thread in hopes for an logical answer when i was puzzled before)

      In that respect, best of luck to OPS, i wish you the best and hope you'll find someone even more special someday!

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      • Gelmurag
        12 years ago

        Despite having a reputation of a pedophile or whatever, and flaming most posts I can logically call a troll, I do on occasion have something useful to say haha. (I'm not a pedo, but I do flame trolls)

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