Is it normal that clitoral stimulation no longer excites me?

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I've masturbated for four years now. I used to have very strong orgasms from rubbing my clitoris, but now I have a super weak, I-technically-had-an-orgasm-but-it-was-sad that occur after only 10 seconds of touching. Now I only like to feel the inside, but I do not have a boyfriend (and have never had a boyfriend), so I am left only feeling the first few inches that my fingers can reach. My main concern is, why am I not as sensitive as I used to be?

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  • MxndFxcked
    5 years ago

    As for the question at hand, it is completely normal to desensitize yourself by masturbating too frequently. Give yourself a few days, and try again. If you're serverly desensitized, it may take anywhere up to two weeks until you have an overwhelming orgasm again. Patience is virtue, patience is key.
    -MxndFxcked

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  • LloydAsher
    5 years ago

    It is possible you are going through the female variant of the male death grip syndrome. Just ease up on masterbation for a while and see if the sensations come back.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Maybe that's your problem (never had a boyfriend) Maybe you need a real man to fill you up and pound you hard and deep. Masturbating your clit just aint doing it.

    Maybe get a dildo that fits you tight and insert it while rubbing your clit. Or even better get them dildo's that have the dick part and the clit stimulater.

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    • TheMightyOz
      5 years ago

      And make sure he isn't pathetic like me. I can't get it up.

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      • MxndFxcked
        5 years ago

        Youre not pathetic. You're human, and Unfortantly that's can be part of being a human. They have methods of helping you. Don't be so hard on yourself. You can't learn to love someone until you've learned how to love yourself. Always remember, we, ourselves, are always our own worst critic. Stay positive Oz.

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        • TheMightyOz
          5 years ago

          Thank you. But, positivity starts with erections.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Paddle pop stick and rubber band.

        Just not that mighty Oz guy you used to be aye.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Not again

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