Is it normal that children annoy me?

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All my life I imagined that I would have children but recently, I have lost all desire. Children annoy the shit out of me. My boyfriends nephews (4 months, and 4 years) live in the same house as us. At first I thought they were adorable and funny but, now I cannot stand being here. I feel like I am losing my mind. The 4 year old is so undisciplined, his mother just leaves him to her mother to take care of & then acts like mother of the year when she's around. He talks back to his poor grandmother, runs around the house until late at night, follows you everywhere you go with a million questions, and my boyfriends family let's him do whatever he wants. He is a spoiled brat. Even the baby, annoys me. He is constantly screaming crying and I can already see the monster he'll be when he gets to be 4 years old & spoiled by this family. At first I thought maybe it just annoys me that my bfs family raised them this was but now I'm starting to think I just shouldn't have kids. Is this normal?

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  • NurseDiesel
    10 years ago

    Discipline is very important. Those brats are clearly lacking the proper upbringing.

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    Maybe u just need to spank ur kids, maybe pratice with the nephews. >=D

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    A. they aren't yours so seeing them at their worst is not gonna make it worth anything since you are not the parent. B. Not all kids are like this, but babies do scream, because that's is what babies do. Me and my brother were exceptionally well behaved kids, we are not posh or anything but for whatever reason we were pretty agreeable when it came to food and travelling, etc. I don't know how much depends on the parents behaviour, or the environment or what. Parenting is one of the biggest responsibilities you will ever have if you plan to do it right, I think that's the most important thing to take away.

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