Is it normal that boyfriend still lives with ex-wife and her boyfriend
Finally had to break-up with my boyfriend. I didn't mind really that he was still living with his ex. He explained in the beginning that it was mainly due to financial reasons. However, what I found hard to accept (and understand) was their living arrangements where they still discussed issues on a regular basis and talked almost every single day. Funny thing was in the beginning of our relationship, he told me how his ex had cheated on him, that she was a slut and that's why they ended up getting a divorce. The thing that really hurt me though was the fact that he would bring her up every now and then. One day, he mentioned how he stayed home one day and she was home too and they ended up watching TV together the whole afternoon. I got upset because I called him that day and he didn't return my call. When he tried to explain, he was defensive about the whole thing. So that made me realize if he is still hung up on his ex, there is no room for me in his life. It's just too bad I felt sorry for him being in the situation he was with. Now I realize he uses his situation to gain sympathy from people.