Is it normal that at times i want to get back with my first love?

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Okay, so it's been a good year and a third (roughly) since I was with my first love. I was a sophomore and she was a freshman. Things were great around the 3rd month of our relationship, 5th month came around and we had sex for the 1st time. We both were virgins.
The summer passed, and our relationship got a little rocky. We began to argue over little stuff, and I would try to argue with her sometimes for no reason( I don't know why I did it, but I did, she did the same) During this rocky road, another girl came into the picture, (now this girl was pretty much a crush I had since sophomore year, more like a sexual crush were as I would fuck her, but not really go out with) I decided to take a "break" since things weren't working out with my GF. During that "break", I met up with my crush( we will call her kim) Things went pretty good with Kim, we went to the park, hanged out and drove around random places, and went to 2 or 3 parties with her. Eventually I kissed her, and things were going pretty good. Until we threw a birthday party for her, and she made out with another guy while being under the influence of weed and alcohol (cross-faded). From that point on, I ended it with Kim. That all lasted a month, so I took a break with my GF for a month. Now after that month we started texting and I really wanted things to be normal again like the beginning of our relationship, but it didn't end up happing. So after 3 weeks of texting, I decided to break it off completely. I haven't talked to her since, and I see her around school campus, but never say hi, I just ignore her and continue walking. Sometimes though, I remember the times that we had together, and how happy we both were. At times, I want to text her and see how she is doing, but I feel that it's wrong and I shouldn't talk to my ex cause I have this thing were if you are in my past, you're in my past I ignore you and you don't exist to me. Is this normal that at times I want to get back with my ex? If so, what should I say to her?

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    Well, it seem like you were the one to break up with her. It's possible that she misses you and is hoping you'll talk to her again. If you really miss her, you should try talking to her again. The worst thing that can happen is she doesn't want to talk to you anymore, but then you can move on. I know it will be hard to talk to her, but if you really want to, you can do it.

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    • QuestionMark?
      11 years ago

      Thank you for your comment. I agree that it is possible that she misses me, not really sure if she "hopes" for me to talk to her, but it's possible. Because I still remember the great times we had, and no doubt she has too.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    The first love is the special love and it's all gooey and mushy peas.

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    • QuestionMark?
      11 years ago

      Yeah :(

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  • HaloFan117
    11 years ago

    Yeah it's normal, but it's your own fault really. Instead of trying to improve this 'rocky road' you went straight to a break, where you got drunk, stoned and had sex while being on a break.

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