Is it normal that at 20yrs old i still get nervous around guys i like?

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So I have this huge crush on this guy at my work. I don't even work with him, but he comes into the area that I work at to pick up food, and I feel like a little girl when I see him. Whenever he talks to me, my hands start to shake a little. I become very shy, and I can't really speak properly. My voice gets quieter, and softer.

I don't understand this. In high school I wasn't this bad with guys I liked. It makes no sense that I am now. Its really embarrassing.

Any other guy that comes in I can talk to fine. When I'm in college, I meet new guys almost everyday! Yet, I can talk to them with no problem. This guy its different.

Yesterday, he spoke to me and I felt like an idiot. Throughout the whole conversation, pretty much all I said was, "yeah..." and giggled a little. I couldn't move. I could hardly look him in the eye. I felt like I couldn't even turn around to watch him leave. Thats how nervous I was. Anybody else get like this?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think no matter what age you are your going o get "giddy" when theres someone you like. Who wants to bet 50 yr old ladys get like that? Every one blushes this is VERY normal dont worry about it :)

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  • Donnie3423
    2 years ago

    Yes it is normal

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago

    haha cute

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  • defmaxinechinorocha
    9 years ago

    Thats totally normal... some people have to let it show it on the outside because they can't keep it pent up inside... nothing odd about that

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  • Jennyfromtheblock82
    12 years ago

    Very normal!!! Im 30 same thing!!

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Totally normal, I'll be 20 in a couple months and I still get like that.

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  • xchocoxbarx
    12 years ago

    yes its totally normal. i have a cousin who also get very nervous around the guy she like. and she is 22!
    so age doesn't matter,, when you in love, you tend to do something stupid, lol.
    my advice, try to give him a clue that you like him, and put those nervousness aside. if you try often enough, i guess you'll get rid of that nervous feeling.
    good luck!

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