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...that I want to come out as being gay? To reveal to my wife that I enjoy having sex with men much more than the occasional'duty' sex I have with her.
(I've been sticking things up my arse since I was 15, and I love sucking cock)
Thats fucked up after 24 years. You shouldnt just think about yourself. You're not that important.
That would be really hard on her and you, so think about it. But on the other hand, it would be a lot more honest than having “duty sex” just to keep fooling her. Btw, I’m bisexual and disclosed it to my wife years ago. She accepted it and even used to go shopping with 1 of my boyfriends. But I like sex with her a lot and we have 2 kids & 3 grandkids who are my heart, so my case is different.
'hey honey remember that time you got gonorrhea and i told you it was from a public toilet seat? well....'
There was a time I was pretty anti-gay, but have finally decided my old beliefs were stupid and life is short and people have the right to live anyway they want and no one has the right to force their opinions on others. If you are gay, its your choice and you can do whatever you want with your life. yes its not my thing but I agree that for those whom its their thing they can live anyway they want. I regret a lot of my past comments on this matter, my current beliefs are very different from then. If you want to come out as gay and find a gay partner, its your choice and you have every right do whatever makes you feel happy. Today I am in full support for LGBTQ rights. Best wishes.
Please, don’t tell her! By all means carry on doing it if it’s your thing but don’t tell her. What would be the point! She’s not going to be like “oh that’s ok, you do that and we’re stay married.” All she’s going to do is ask for a divorce and if it’s a divorce you want then just get one what’s the point in breaking her heart even more and what’s the point in causing yourself all the grief that comes with it? None is the answer. So no, don’t tell your wife ffs