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The reason I call myself straight is because I only ever have liked men and felt romantically for them, also I’ve orgasmed many times through penetration and have enjoyed sexual experiences with men so I don’t want to rule that out and call myself a lesbian. Never been with a woman, not sure if I’d like it. What do you think?
You know what it's like to have a vagina, so seeing other aroused vaginas probably activates some mirror neurons which helps you climax
Vaginas are just better looking than penises. Penises look like an alien wearing a poloneck sweater landed in a man's crotch.
Completely normal to find lesbian porn arousing on that basis alone.
Is it because you like the equality of the lesbian dynamic? No-one is “meant” to be dominant?
I’ve heard of lesbians who like gay porn and erotica for the dynamic. Show them a man on his own and they feel nothing but put two strapping young lads together and make them have bum sex and suddenly they’re having a great time. You could be the gender-reversed version of that?
You're definitely in the best situation to find out. Out of all the possible combinations, I find it or think it's easier to get a guy to accept you wanting another female to join and share you with them than another guy. You may not want to go that way but it's a way of finding out what you like. Wanting another guy to join or if you were male and told your partner you wanted another girl or guy to join can be relationship killers.
That's not how it works at all. Arousal is not everything. for example, if someone is sexually aroused by, say, corpses, that does not necessarily mean they want a long-term relationship with a corpse. Same with people who are aroused by children. Then you have people who are sexually aroused by singular body parts. In that case, they could aroused by the same body part on either gender, but only be attracted to one gender.