Is it normal that, as a happily 19-year-married, hetero woman i bi?!?

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Hi---I am a faithful, in-true-love, hetero housewife, and yet I've always, since early childhood, had bi-curious feelings/attractions/in-depth fantasies!!! My husband accepts this, talks it out with me, etc...but I refuse to actually DO things about it. When I was a teen, I had a beautiful Hispanic girl turn me down when I finally propositioned her, and it hurt badly...she'd looked so scared of me, ever after I think that if I even asked questions of maybe-gay/bi women, which I can't even define, they'd hurt me just as bad! Where do I search for/find another reliable woman to talk to/understand me/HELP me?!?

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  • s_l
    11 years ago

    Seek good counseling. Do not spoil what you have for something you dont even know you want.

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  • 7117tc4175
    11 years ago

    It is normal to have fantasies. It is also normal to give them as much realism as possible to increase the erocism gained from them. On ocassions fantasies become so strong that the temptation to bring them to reality seems overwhelming. I would recommend considering the possible consequences of that, both intended and unintended. Also, it is probably worth noting that in fantasy you are in complete control, in reality you are not. With that in mind there are times that the fantasy is actually better than reality.

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  • Tehboss
    11 years ago

    woman just don't forget your husband

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  • pantaloonz
    11 years ago

    Damn it, why does everyone always get the good ones!

    Try to incorporate your husband into it, he'll thank me for it!!!

    -Pantz!

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  • Silentnight
    11 years ago

    You can talk to me :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You have an imagination, that is all.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Go find an LGBT forum or an LGBT group in your area. In some areas, there are tons of them. They are usually very welcoming of people that are confused regarding their sexuality.

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  • pambambam
    11 years ago

    you sound so stupid.

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