Is it normal that am going out with a 15year old and am 18

Right iv been going out with her for a year I just wnt to no is it wrong.

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  • Darkoil

    My best mate was going out with a 15 year old when he was 18, a lot of people called him pedo jokingly but there still together and he is 23 and she is 20 now.

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    • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs

      Seems people get a lot more worried when someone in the relationship is underage. Kind of weird when you think of a 20 and 23 year old, which is no problem at all. :P

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    • Darkoil

      *they're ahhhhnhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • ready2rumble

    For guys is normal as girls that age are attracted to older guys.. Her parents will not like it for sure

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    • bryson_willis

      was in the same situation, her parents encouraged it...

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  • PumpkinKate

    The real question is... is it legal where you live? It's a good way to secure yourself a nice cozy jail cell where I come from.

    If it IS legal, then... well, it's somewhat normal. I have my own opinions on it, but there are always exceptions to the rule, so I need not even share them.

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    • M.U.

      As far as I know dating is legal regardless of age pretty much everywhere. This example is about at the limit of what is acceptable socially, but as long as no lines are crossed physically the relationship itself wouldn't be illegal even in a more extreme case.

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  • roxielilyrox

    are you a guy or a girl? if a girl.. not really normal. if a guy.. yes normal!

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    • cammers

      hellooooo! there are women called cougars

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  • anti-hero

    Sounds illegal depending on where you live.

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  • TrentLovesCats

    i think you guys should try to find somebody your own age. why are they 18, a grown ass person, going out with a 15 year old kid?

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    • Most successful relationships are when the male is five years older than the female.

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    • Aleks85

      the younger the berry the sweeter the juice.

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    • MAIRzY

      15 year old kid lol she acts so older

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  • its ok

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  • tiffunny5

    When my husband and I first started dating, I was 15 and he 20. That was 15+ years ago and we are still together, married for 10 years, we have 5 children. 15 year old with a 20 year old sounds kinda wrong to some people. But now we are 31 and 36. Nobuddy has a problem with our age Difference now! And they shouldn't have back then either, Ohh... but they did ! But look how
    Our relationship turned out.

    Dont pay No mind to what other people think. Follow your own heart, make your own Destiny :)

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  • Normal so long as you respect the laws. You're the adult in the relationship, it's up to you to make sure you act correctly according to law.

    I would have lots of meetings and meals with her parents, get them to know you and so that they don't freak too much.

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  • LukeMJThorpe

    age isnt really the problem if you truely love her then ignor the others

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  • chocolatchaud

    you guys are only 3 years apart. my cousin is about 6 years older than his girlfriend. so i think it's normal. it may seem like you're a lot older when you guys are still young, but as you get older, you can barely notice the difference in age. you'll both be adults.

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  • BigScaryRooster

    It's normal and very common. As long as you two love and respect each other, that's all that matters.

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  • Riddler

    Well I personally have age rage of 3 years down or 3 years up. So I don't see the problem with it. However if you have sex he is liable for statutory. Not everyone sees a big issue with this but if its consensual or not the courts can still hammer them for it. Its borderline wrong but its only like 3 years. I don't understand how it can be ok for a 14-17 but not a 15-18.

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  • Well, apparantly a relationship/marriage where the male is five years older tends to have a more successful relationship. I don't see the problem here, unless you are having sex with her while she is under the age where she is allowed to have sex.

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  • FrancoisDillinger

    they have the term "minor" for a reason. There are rules against this sort of thing.

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  • oleo

    haha, I did the same thing when I was 18, she was hot but very immature. She was more of a kid than a gf, I liked her but it didn't work out.

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  • Hismilkchocolate

    Althoough it's only a 3 year age difference its probably not that normal considering you're officially an adult and shes still a minor. And, she's only going to be 16 when your 19...think about that

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  • Oreobeast

    Normal, I did it, we were great together :)

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  • Ramit10

    Some people would have a diff say on it but its only 3 years diff. I've done things with a 14 year old and im 19. Age is just a number to me. As long as the are mature I dont care but if I was looking to date someone I would look for someone 18-20

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    • Satchmo

      U did shit with a 14 year old when u were 19 that is clearly wrong and there is a good reason this is wrong so she was in the 8th grade and u were a freshman possibly a sophomore in college how in the world could anyone agree that this is ok. Most 14 year old girls look like children at the least you are a desperate pervert at the most your a pedophile let me guess she came onto you

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      • Ramit10

        Not this girl she was mature and def not desperate she came on to me and I said ok. Call me w.e you want I dont care. And also I was a senior in HS when it happened

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        • Satchmo

          Just keep in mind pedophiles get raped in prison by hung dudes named bubba

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        • Satchmo

          Oh yeah and she was what in the 8th grade it's wrong if this isn't obvious to u there is no helping you

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          • Ramit10

            Ok?

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          • Satchmo

            By the way I said u were the desperate one not her

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            • Ramit10

              Yeahh I can read...

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      • Satchmo

        Meant to say there is a very good reason this is illegal

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  • TerryVie

    here it's totally legal. The parents would still like a word with you, probably...out of fear you'll just use her for sex or even leave her pregnant.
    If your intentions are honest, there should be no problem. Unless you life someplace where it's illegal.

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