Is it normal that almost everything my boyfriend does aggravates me?

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So let me start by saying me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. We have somewhat of a long distance relationship. We live an hour and half apart so we dont see each other during the week days but we try and see eachother every weekend.

During the first 6 months of our relationship everything was fine. We had simple fights and disagreements but nothing like we do now. Now everytime im around him everything he does annoys me. Like for example; the way the eats, walks, the things he says, just the stupidest things that have no meaning at all. Whenever im around him i can see why im annoyed by those things but whenever im not around him i think to myself how stupid it was to get upset about something so dumb.

I love him and care about him so much, i really do.

I know that no matter what i need to find a solution to my problem because its only going to worsen our relationship if something isnt done.

any advice?

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    What a ray of sunshine you are. If you can't stand him and you hardly see him...it's time to set him free. The way you feel is not fair to him.

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  • FunnyCow101
    12 years ago

    If he just changed everything about him it is kind of normal but if you just stopped liking the way he is you should stop going out with him

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Yeah i would break it off now before it gets more serious. He is not the guy for you and it will only get worse.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    "Now everytime im around him everything he does annoys me. Like for example; the way he eats, walks, the things he says, just the stupidest things that have no meaning at all."

    Don't let the small things bother you. Everyones got little quirks. But when you concentrate too long on the weird things, you're gonna get aggravated. If its something thats bearable, don't make a mountain out of a molehill about it. I mean, don't break up with him because of the way he walks, you know?

    Love is looking past all his quirks that other people from the public would probably see and roll their eyes at.

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  • Zoroaster
    12 years ago

    From personal experience I can say your relationship is DEFINITELY heading in the wrong direction. Nothing is quicker to end a relationship than contempt, which is what it sounds like you have for him when you're together. You must either somehow work out your issues or end the relationship because the longer it goes on the more you suffer and hurt one another.

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  • canada87
    12 years ago

    Try letting him win a fight. I think it would be good, so he know he has some control of the relationship.

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