Is it normal that all relationships become sexless after a few years?

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I've been with my bf for 15 yrs. Our sex life is getting to be nonexistent. I literally resent him for having his penis and not wanting to use it! How am I the asshole if I were to cheat? I won't have sex with you but you're a dirty whore if you get it elsewhere. I'm sorry...I just don't understand it. Its not like we hate each other...it just seems lime as time goes by it less and less. I'm 38, he's 43. Is it an age thing?

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    You have two options:

    1. Talk to him. I don't mean give him ultimatums and threats, but just see why his sex drive decreased and work with him. There are many things that can lower libido, and most common being stress. So before you immaturely cheat, yell, or call him old, at least talk to him like you care about him and not just the sex....

    2. End the relationship and go have sex with many different men. Form a poly relationship somewhere so you can have choices.

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  • Jujudog
    7 years ago

    Break up with him. The second you do, he'll want to nail you again.
    Welcome to the primitive but simple thing that is the mind of a man:
    Have it - Don't want it
    Don't have it - want it

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  • VirgilManly
    7 years ago

    Buy a vibrator.

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  • forgotusernameagain
    7 years ago

    Get some younger dudes, it's what I do. I like em young because they're always ready like they should be. It's not cheating if you give him a fair warning. Tell him "I'm going to get it elsewhere if you don't start getting it up and working" Old timers just can't compete with a youthful young man

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    • CorruptedSoul
      7 years ago

      LOL

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    Talk to him as tealights said and if he still doesn't want sex and you want sex break up. Don't cheat!

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