Is it normal that all my friends find me soothing.
Apparently from what I've been told, I'm a calming, soothing and reassuring person. All my friends male or female, gay, straight or bi have told me this. Apparently my voice is reassuring and soothed them. My voice happens to be pretty deep though I'm soft spoken and very quiet. A lot my friends go to great lengths to get me to talk up a storm(something I RARELY do)
Apparently my presence is calming, reassuring and makes them feel safer(I'm 5'6 and 124 lbs. I don't see how that's so reassuring.) Even my straight male friends say this and they're all taller than me. Apparently just in general my voice, presence and the way I look at them makes them feel better and nervous st the sane time. I'm also gay and can be very nurturing especially towards friends. Is anyone else like that? Is that a good thing? I think It's very odd.