Is it normal that all my friends are girls.

Since the age of 13, all my good friends have just been girls. When i meet a guy , we do becomes friend but afterawhile he finds a better person and start ignoring me(thats what i feel).all my friends as girls in college.Thats the first problem. Second problem is that, many people who meets me compliments me that im fair ,cute, nice person and all a person wants to hear..but even that i have no girls that i feel have a crush on me... ( thats what i feel also)

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  • killiminati

    Are u gay? Alot of guys who have nothin but girls as friends are gay I'm just saying more power to you and if ur not gay and ur bangin all ur girl-friends hell yeah

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  • AB1234

    Until late high school I was the same way (except I'm a girl and had only guy friends). Growing up I was a tomboy. My dad took me out to the wilderness on survival training. I played a ton of sports. I learned to rebuild antique car engines & bodies. I followed baseball, football, hockey, soccer avidly. And I hated shopping, cooking, and traditionally girly things. I had a lot in common with guys. I don't think it hurt me in any way. In fact, now guys seem super comfortable around me.

    So if you have really close relationships with girls, and your (and their) needs are being met, screw what anyone else thinks you should do. Whether your straight or not, whenever you get into a serious relationship, your partner will understand that you happen to have great friends who're girls. And you won't give her (him?) any reason to suspect otherwise. Right?

    Besides, you're still in HS. Maybe in the next couple years you'll develop in ways you cannot anticipate now. Here's hoping you have a fun rest of HS!

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  • A_long_grueling_cycle

    I have the same problems... I'm in high school, and thought that possibly that would change in college or something?

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  • theshytrovert

    I don't think it's normal. You should cultivate guy and girl friends. You may face problems when you do enter into a romantic relationship. Most women if they are honest will not like it if you're hanging around other women a lot. They may be your friends, but they are still the competition by virtue of their sex.

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  • jrphotographer

    Ya its normal. Its just whoever you get along with regardless of gender

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  • BUGABOO-666-

    There's nothing wrong with having all-female friends as a dude. I've always gotten along much better with girls and most of my friends have been girls. I'm also 100% straight.

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  • 8Serene8

    Hmm. You may be too nice. A lot if girls won't go for men that are goody two shoes and 100% nice. I don't mean be a jerk to them but have a twisted sense of humor or something.

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