Is it normal that all i think about is black guys?

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So I'm a 19 year old female and for a little over a year now I've noticed I have grown to be extremely attracted to black men. Anyways for quite some time now I'm noticing my attraction has become an obsession. I'm white/Caucasian and I don't find white guys to be as attractive anymore I don't even pay attention to them or see myself with a white guy or any other race for that matter. I don't know what it is. I've only dated black guys but each one I dated didn't treat me right and only wanted sex. All I think about constantly and fantasizing about is them but wanting to find a good man. But is it normal to think about them so much? When I see a cute black guy I get anxious and think about it for a while after and I'm always looking and hoping to meet a guy each day and I can't seem to shake it off and just be patient. Black men are just so sexy and beautiful but it's driving me crazy thinking about them so much. What do I do?

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  • Nancy_willington
    9 years ago

    Black guys are just like white guys, just more attractive to you

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  • capmann1880
    9 years ago

    Its as normal as people are into blondes or brunettes or girls with big butts or guys with beards or whatever else. Skin color is just another superficial difference.

    What does sound like an issue is if your experience with men have been generally poor--that they aren't treating you right. Its not that they are black, its whats going on in their heads. The values they have (or lack of values).

    If you want to date only black guys, more power to you. Just find a nice one. There are plenty out there.

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    • jt1995
      9 years ago

      Thank you very much that was helpful . I didn't mean to make it sound like my relationships were bad cause they were black lol. Again, thanks!

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  • Fingersniffer
    9 years ago

    When I was your age I was exactly like you. I've went out with quite a bit of black guys and yes there are a lot of well educated and resonsible ones out there. I'm Asian by the way and I have been with my current bf for over 5 years.
    I find other races including white guys attractive too as long as they're tall and slim with nice features and of course compatible with me.

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy
    9 years ago

    "All black men want is sex!" I had my dad saying that sometimes. It didn't turn out to be true when I got to be friends with them. Well, some do but but not all of them

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    • TwoThumbs
      9 years ago

      I mean...seriously? Humans want sex. Men...women. Race isn't a factor here.

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      • jt1995
        9 years ago

        Thank you :)

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  • Sara0303
    7 years ago

    you must have low self esteem. You must be a fat girl also

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  • Morgan_Freeman
    9 years ago

    You want their larger than normal d is all ;)

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    well it's racist that you don't give other guys a chance just cuz they're not black.

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    • jt1995
      9 years ago

      Drop the racist shit and grow up

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  • luv2fuckwhitepussy
    9 years ago

    i feel the same way u do about white women !! i luv em !!

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    • jt1995
      9 years ago

      Lmao I couldn't tell by your username x). Haha thanks tho makes me feel better!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    If you're asking if its normal to have a preference, then yes, you're normal.

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  • LyeByMistake
    9 years ago

    I don't think its normal but definitely not wrong.

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  • SuperBenzid
    9 years ago

    Well your attraction isn't a problem so there isn't any need to do anything about it. If it really bothers you though psychologists actually can treat that sort of thing. It generally wouldn't be hard to change that sort of low level fetish significantly over time.

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