Is it normal, that after i fell in love with my best friend?

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Well, when I was in High School, I became friends with this awesome cool guy. He and I were really close, and became best friends...like brothers...I saw him as my little brother for awhile, and became protective, and he told me everything, even though he was a tough guy to his other friends. I began noticing, I had developed other feelings...more intense feelings for him. I was not gay, nor am I bi...but I WAS curious...Im straight...but I fell in LOVE and knew it was real. Months passed and he found out, from other friends because our relationship seemed more and more close. His friends made him end our friendship and he did also....its been a year, and I though I got over him and moved on...but the season brings back memories of the good days I spent with him, how he was, and I was attracted to him. The memories are there and sometimes the emotions come back. Is it normal? I graduated and he was a grade below...im in college now...but I sometimes want to see him so badly.

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  • Kreugerman91
    13 years ago

    Oh and that was for gates1839..yea ur an ass...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    1) You're not straight, it's called bi-curious. Love knows no gender, age, nor boundaries of any sort because love IS blind.
    2) Yea, that's completely normal. You fell in love with a guy who was so close to you, why ain't that normal? If you think it's because you're a guy and that ain't normal, then that's society talking. FLIP THEM OFF AND STRUT!
    3) He sounds like a homophobe, you should find someone better.

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  • mrfairfax
    10 years ago

    This happened to me before and like you I still get sad when fall comes around.

    More people have these feelings than we know. I have a small, non-judgmental website to support people like us, because sometimes we need to know that we are not alone. http://were-not-gay.tumblr.com/

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    love is somewhere far

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  • House
    13 years ago

    awwwwww!!! this story made me sad...of course it's normal to miss him!you were so close.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    Ok and all but you are gay.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    There us noting wrong with being gay! I am strait cuz I love women! And if thinking some guys (Apollo Ono, Jake jilinhall) are attractive (maybe it I find them sexy maybe I want to be like them but I like to look at them) then I guess I'm bi. But my friend I can hear that you might be afraid of opening your true feeling and denying the truth in you, so don't be embarrasses and try to tell your friend that you miss your guys-es relationship, cuz it doesn't matter who you are because physical appearance is but a shell containing the real YOU and that is what makes you make each other happy!!!
    Ofcorce try to make him see that before you spring love up on him. And even tho I am a disbeliever in love, I tell you to keep trying.

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  • kricket
    13 years ago

    Aw I know all the memories are nice but there will be other memories soon!

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  • theonewiththehair
    13 years ago

    His loss.

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  • gates1839
    13 years ago

    Get a life....

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