Is it normal that after 3 years she wont let go

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Iv been with my gal for almost 3 years now and we've been through a lot,fights,break ups... But I still love her more than ever and she says she loves me too. I haven't been the greatest boyfriend and I know I've hurt her a lot,I've said things that she can't seem to forget,including picking on her breasts which I was an ass for and she can't seem to forgive me for that,its affecting us a lot,her animosity,yet I don't blame it,is causing a lot of fights and is affecting our sex life. I know I was wrong and I wish there was somrthing I can do to make up but its 3 years later and she's still angry,its now come down to her telling me that she would preffer me doing things to her the way her ex did but she's the one that refuses to let go of the anger she has for what I did? Its 3 years later and my exs have never been a problem yet she never fails to bring hers up every day... Is this normal? Should I put up with it? What should I do?

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    ultimatum time

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  • smashingpumpkinator
    13 years ago

    maybe shes milkin it

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    Honestly iv tried speaking to her but most of the time,the way she interrogates just makes things come out wrong from my mouth and things just end up worse,she says she can't forget even tho I swear to her everyday that I was wrong for saying what I did and things have changed. But she just won't believe me,she says she never will

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    • BoredGuy
      13 years ago

      Write them down on an email. then you wont get confused when u send it to her.

      Anyway, i would try the email, if she still not ok, then i would break up with her and move on.

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  • beastiessister
    13 years ago

    Dude thinks about this! Im telin you straight im a girl nd what most girls feel when somthing like that is said to them is horrible! it makes us feel insucre and like were not enough BUT three years is a HELL of a long time to hold a grudge! trying talkin to her about it and to open up with her abit more. If things dont change it might be best for you to both go your seperat ways since it sounds like neither of you are getting on very well,
    good luck,
    from beastiessistter!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    -looks at the site name-
    -sighs-
    The name of the site is "IsItNormal"
    not
    "WhatShouldIDo"

    why is it that this site gets all the stories except the ones it was made for?

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