Is it normal that a spouse takes off for days on end

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My spouse is bi polar.but i know she uses that as an excuse to take off for days on in.then she says shes not doing nothig wrong but has never given the whole story of where shes been,whos shes been with,where shes been at. But says shes not messing around.without confirmation or certainty that she is messing around is it normal that i dont belirve her

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Based on 38 votes (12 yes)
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  • uPSIDEOFDOWn
    11 years ago

    i make some mistakes when i type, but come on man...

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Not normal get counselling.

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  • hootiemomma
    11 years ago

    I have a similar situation with my boyfriend. I think he is using drugs or cheating. I mean, I have no secrets. I am easy to find! I think a serious, monogamous relationship requires a certain amount of transparency...whether one party is mentally ill or not. My boyfriend is permanently disabled from depression and anxiety and is a former heroine abuser.

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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    bi polar is not an excuse for cheating

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  • stealmysocks
    11 years ago

    Go with her next time, problem solved. If its because shes bipolar, comfort her. If shes cheating, mow her down with your car. or fist her with both arms and wear like a glove.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    1) Proof read PLEASE!

    2) I don't think she is cheating on you, just try and support her with her condition as much as you can. Mental illness can be terribly trying for a person. Perhaps she feels the need to take off and clear her head. It's possible that she feels guilty about being a burden for you and is trying to give you a break! (My mother would do that)

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    She's probably blowing your money.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Why would she use her Bipolar as a excuse. If you know what's it like to have a mental illness, you'd know how hard it is to deal with one. I'm not sure if her disappearances is a symptom or not, but mania can cause people to act "recklessly" among other things. If you cared about her, you'd be more understanding and try to help her deal with this. Instead of accusing her of "making excuses" and "cheating".

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