Is it normal that a person seems less attractive after knowing them

I seem to have this problem alot. I noticed that if i see a girl for example ill think "yea shes beutifull" after i make her my girlfriend and its been a while that were together she seems less attractive then she did at first. Is this normal? Does this happen to anyone else

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Based on 74 votes (61 yes)
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  • Shnaz

    We'll after they meet you they not only find you unattractive they want to puke.

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  • peterr

    Familiarity breeds contempt, they say.

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  • scribble

    people look different once you get to know them

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  • inkeeper115

    Thats why I don't date

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  • I know exactly what the original poster is talking about. I cant find myself being attracted to a woman after a certain amount of time, thats not to say I am TOTALLY not attracted to them, I just find pursuing relationships as something that is expected for people to do when you hit a certain age.

    Its not something I would want, it actually confuses me when people talk about it as something they want.

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  • MajorKusanagi

    Totally normal. When you like someone, you tend to idealize them...until the horrible true person comes out.

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  • Dazzie

    This happens because you become used to seeing her and being with her. Don't know if it happens to everyone, but it has happened to me before.

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  • When a person sees another person, they tend to let their imagination run wild with the type of personality they could have. Maybe you just saw her as a pretty face and nothing more.

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