Is it normal that a man could do this!?

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I was with my boyfriend for 15 months,he lived with me at my mums house im 24 and hes 21, we work together aswell and i thought we were so in love.He started bugging me abit and i admit that i was abit of a bitch i told he to leave sunday 2 weeks ago,he wasnt going to go but i pushed him and it was to late for me to say i didnt mean it he was gone! a few days later we met and had a chat he couldnt look me in the eye as i was practically begging for him to give it another chance.........wrong move i know. Now i find out hes been seeing a girl at the same place we work, really into her changed all his social networking passwords and just moved on just like that!! hes denied anything is going on but he wont talk to me,look at me at work its like his love for me has completley gone and hes moved on so quick to this girl.I feel like ive had my life and love taken away ive lost so much wieght in 2 weeks i dont know where to turn i just want him back it hurts so much to seem him being with herthe way he was with me. Im heartbroken and dont know what to do......

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago | pl

    you kicked him out and now you are upset because he has moved on? that was your own doing, sorry.

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  • Piconano
    13 years ago

    It's normal, and you would have probably done the same. He moved on.

    You still love him. But he is trying to get over you and is having a relationship with another woman. If you care for him, let him have his new love life.

    It's hard to get over someone, so I'm not going to tell you to get over him. But, please, let the man do as he wants. Mistakes are easily made, but not easily corrected. You have mistakenly and forcibly thrown him out, and there is no going back.

    You had this coming. I'm sorry.

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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    If he wasn't with another girl would you feel this bad? Of course no.

    You're not heartbroken cuz he left you (or you kicked him out), in fact you're freaking jealous cuz he moved on and got another girl.

    Let it go and move on, or aren't there others guys where you live?

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  • cinnalife
    13 years ago

    Lesson learned isn't it? You asked, no, pushed him to leave and he did. Did you think he was going to sit & wait for you to come crawling back??

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  • Gardenia
    13 years ago

    Agree.
    You went too far.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    i have to admit he moved on rather fast...

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  • yomorris
    13 years ago

    You brought this upon yourself. Learn to live with it

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  • koifish
    13 years ago

    We all do shit we regret. But it happens for a reason. You fucked up. Now when you date someone you'll know not to do that.

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  • easymt528
    13 years ago

    You kicking him out presented an opportunity. I think he's had this other girl waiting in the wings for sometime now which is why he is unable to look at you. In addition, it's also why he was able to move on so fast. Move on.

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  • trapstar
    13 years ago

    Yah you're an idiot like all girls

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  • JackiePygmyGoat
    12 years ago

    Doesn't really belong on here. Sorry. If you're not sniffing your own farts or asking about your totally weird mole take it to your livejournal or whatever. God, I'm old.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    She's a rebound girl honey. I'm sorry that happened but it probably wasn't meant to be.

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  • LatexKittie
    13 years ago

    Sorry but it's time to move on. He has. He's already got another girl and turned you into a memory. As hard as it is to hear that, that's really what happened. The fact is you were probably never very important to him in the first place.

    I'm sorry this is not encouraging but it's better you found out now than farther down the road. It sucks that you work in the same place but you'll just have to deal with it unless one of you quits.

    But it seems as though he's moved on. You should too. It won't be easy but holding on to it is only going to cause problems, especially if you work together and you keep pushing him for answers.

    You seem like a kind and loving person so I've no doubt that there is someone out there who is WAY more deserving of your attention. That guy is going to be a very lucky man!

    -lk

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  • HSVWHO
    13 years ago

    He was always doing her... U just gave him the opportunity to get what he wanted.. Move one man.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Is my money and I need it now !

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  • groman
    13 years ago

    Any guy that moved in with his gf parents in their 20s is a total loser. May not seem like it now but you got off nicely!! Get over it and find someone who can support themselves!

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