Is it normal that a guy keeps insisting

ok here it goes...i met this guy..we went on a date.we didnt really click..ive been openly avoiding him, canceling our plans and ignoring his textes for over 6 months now...and he keeps insisting, whenever we run into each other he just gives me a creepy look and doesn't say anything,he stares and smiles..and on our date he TOOK HIS SHIRT OFF and tried to carry me is it normal? and if it isnt what do i do? he keeps texting me at least 3 times everyday.. ive never been in this type of situation URGENT PLEASE HELP

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13% Normal
Based on 135 votes (17 yes)
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  • dappled

    It sounds like you've been on a date with someone who used to be an acquaintance of mine. That is exactly the kind of thing he'd do. It's creepy but, in reality, he just doesn't have the self-awareness to know it's creepy.

    I've had issues with people being a bit insistent about their place in my life (to put it nicely) and the more you ignore them, the more they fight for that place. The only thing that has ever stunned them into awareness is complete, blunt honesty. Things like "I don't like you" or "You're scaring me" or "I don't want to know you" or "Please don't contact me again" sound rude but sometimes it's the only way.

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  • penpal21

    Radar has it right. Six months is a LONG time. Be direct and tell him you will go to the police if this doesn't stop. Then follow through if necessary.

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  • structuredproduct

    'took his shirt off and tried to carry you' its obvious - he's a twilight fan!!

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  • joybird

    Be very very careful of this stalker!

    Make it very clear you are not interested and if he persists, take your phone to the police and show them his texts and calls. Ask them to call him and make him aware that they have noted his stalking behaviour!!

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  • Pepper

    "Canceling our plans"? You sound like one of those people who will complain about how you feel to everyone in the world except the one person you should, as numerous people suggest, frankly confront.

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  • Just nicely tell him that he is bothering you too often. You said you are avoiding him which is bad to do because you need to be very clear that he is bothering you.
    Some people can not take a hint and you need to be very clear and literal with them.
    If this doesn't work and he continues to disrespect your boundries then it is time for a restraining order.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Learn marital arts and get a restraining order.

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  • jucedaguy

    You dated yourself a bonafide douchebag didn't your daddy warn you not to date douchebags? Especially the takey shirty off guys and the old perennial carry carry douche.... They're the worst kind of douchebag!

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  • brown.eyed.girl

    it sounds like he is stalking you

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  • Alexander_Louise_Armstrong

    throw your feces at him, then eat the feces, repeat for infinte profit

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  • ygrowup

    It is only normal if you have not verbally told him you are not interested in him and made that clear to him!

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    • pocoloco

      but shouldn't he get the message after 6 months of being igonored?

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      • ygrowup

        No, not all guys are like that, they need the closure of you saying it in person, and being direct! Sorry, I know it is hard, but you will both be better for it!

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  • magdalena11

    Um yes he could be just a socially weird dude, or he could be an obsessed rapist. I would tell him to stop contacting you or you will be filling out a police report. Then do it if he doesn't listen.

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  • Whoa stalker alert. Yeah you need to squash that out quick before it grows.

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  • Darkoil

    Simples just tell him to go fuck himself.

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Tell him you've got the herp. That should send him packing...

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  • Inspector019

    Here's a thought....Maybe instead of playing the game of avoiding him, you should just be honest with him and tell him you are not interested and to leave you alone.

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  • elle22

    Get a knife. He may try murder you when he finds out you have another lover.

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  • Sweetz

    Kick em in the nuts !

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  • chicken471bologna

    Maybe he likes you?

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    • pixie_dust

      retard

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