Is it normal that a girl posted a heart on my boyfriends wall?

my boyfriend is really shy and doesn't have a lot of friends. but he has a tumblr and lots of internet friends from that. he's friends with lots of those people on facebook... mostly pretty girls. one of them posted a heart on his wall on facebook and it made me uncomfortable, and a little sad.
is it normal to feel uncomfortable even though she lives in the US and i'm from canada? i'm scared he's flirting with all of these girls online.
can i tell him i don't feel like this is appropriate?

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Comments ( 17 )
  • Shackleford96

    Aw hell naw, you need to slap that ho!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Sure you could talk to him about it let him know how it's making you feel.

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  • VioletTrees

    I'm married, and I send hearts in emails to friends. I'm not cheating on my husband, it's just a sign of affection. It depends on the person. If it bothers you, talk to him about it.

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  • Indifferentx

    Come to the U.S and 187 that bitch. Tell your boyfriend it makes you uncomfortable, girl!!! Honesty is good in a relationship. Especially if it's bothering you. Guys seem to not like when you tell them nothing is wrong and there is. Especially a heart....

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Hearts aren't always a sign of love. I am married and I send my friends hearts as a sign of affection, no big deal.

    However, if I know that a certain friend has a girlfriend then I try to keep from posting that kind of stuff on his wall and I try to keep it out of our chat speak as well (some bitches be crazy, going through their man's messages and shit).

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  • blue_burr

    <3

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  • Nathanielx

    Yes, of course it's normal! Hearts have become a sign of affection, rather than love, so it's normal to send a heart, or using hearts when writing, to a person you care about, even if it's just like a friend. You could do the same with a family member.

    Just note, that if it's making you feel uncomfortable, you should definitely let him know. Just tell him that you saw a girl posted a heart on his wall, ask him if it was a good friend of his, or this, or that. But don't interrogate him, that'll just make you seem like an overly jealous kind of person. If you show genuine interrest in who that person was, and at the same time express how you feel about it, there's no reason for him to become mad, or think that you're just being too jealous. He'll understand.

    If you tell him how you feel, he'll probably explain it, and you just have to listen to, and trust, what he says. Remember, it's most likely the truth. (:

    Much love

    - Nathan

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  • elephantface

    He's cheating on you. Confront him.

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  • blue_burr

    Just cuz some chick is sending him hearts don't mean he's cheating it would be a little different if he sent them back or even a smiley face or anything but that still don't really 100% say he's cheating maybe you could just be a big girl and sit him down and ask him or catch him off guard and ask him and watch his reaction don't assume shit that just causes more problems.this right here is a fine reason why middle schoolers don't need to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Wow smh. They should have talks in middle school saying schools more important then a relationships at the time.

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  • PapzBSlim

    He may not be doing anything wrong but you still need to confront him about it. Tell him how it makes you feel. My girlfriend tells me every time she feels a girl is inappropriate with me.

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  • 1776

    Its normal you are scared, and its, sadly, "normal" that you realize men are jerks at some point.

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  • Saycheese

    Yes, it's never good to feel uncomfortable in a relationship. Say something to him about it. If he doesn't listen to you and it still bothers you then f him.

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    • shuggy-chan

      why would you "f" a cheater?

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      • Saycheese

        Who says he's a cheater?

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  • sissycakes

    some people have a heart automatically show up if they post something to facebook from their phone.

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  • blue_burr

    ^^ will you show that to him for me please!!?

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    <3

    I wanna get freak nasty with you ;)

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