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Hi I'm a female and I'm obsessed with my art teacher is this normal I'm 18 and she is in her like late 20s. I don't know what to do should I tell her or what? Help! Is this normal?
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Totally normal! I used to have such a crush on one of my sports teachers but I was so scared to say anything. Going to an all-girls school she did see me naked in the changing rooms and I did used to show myself off more when she was there but I never had the courage to say how I felt. I do kinda regret that. I guess as teachers they're used to some students having a crush on them but I'm sure if you ever did tell her she wouldn't freak out on you. The big difference is that you're both adults where I wasn't. Of course you could just go for it and tell her that you would love to have a life drawing done of you but you're too scared to be naked in front of a whole class full of people - see if she offers to draw you. It could be a start of you being naked in front of her and letting her know how comfortable you are with her. Just a thought. Ax
Ignore these idiots who are telling you to just go for it: it's entirely normal to be attracted to whoever you're attracted to, but very stupid to take any steps towards anything resembling a sexual relationship with a teacher.
She'll lose her job if she responds. You can be friends but no more until she's no longer your teacher. I'd hold off on telling her you're sexually interested in her until you know if she even wants to be friends: a little bit of hanging around after class & making low key conversation for a while should give you some idea if there's even any hope of a friendship.
Learning that you can't always have what you want exactly when you want it is part of growing up
Many people have sex feelings for a attractive older person. You are exposed to your teacher often. Females more than males at your age like someone older - in their late mid 20's to early 30's and even older. I would not tell her outright. I would try to find reason to try to talk to her all I could. after class. Then see if she will talk about personal stuff. If se does tell her your feelings about guy's and girls. It's ok to be gay in 2016.
Yes it is normal. If you really want a relationship with her be her friend first. She should be comfortable with you before you tell her the big news.
I wish you luck.
Hold on there: unless she wants the teacher to lose her job she should NOT go with anything like a relationship.