Is it normal that a couple days i like him and the other no?

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So I met this guy back in high school and he was oh so sweet. He still is. He loves me and I know so. The problem is that, there's these couple days I'm so happy talking to him and all, and the other days, no. We have been together for less then two months. I'm still forming more feelings towards him but I don't know what to do. It's frustrating to like him a couple days and the other not to. Is this normal?

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  • EccentricWeird
    10 years ago

    You're being a flaky bitch. Stop fucking around with the poor guy's feelings. You're the reason men give up on having families.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Hahaha

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    • jazzy-swordfish
      10 years ago

      To the point, I like it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Why do you like him? Do you have shared interests with him? Do you like him because of the person he is inside or is it more like you like him because he's "sweet" and treats you better than other guys have treated you in the past? Because your reasons for liking him have to be about more than yourself. The both of you need to be compatible on a deeper level than just looks, physical affection and "oh this person is sweet."

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  • crygypsy
    10 years ago

    There is obviously something missing for you in this relationship. Leave before he becomes more attached and you cause him immense emotional pain. It will also be harder to leave the relationship once you form more feelings for him but yet something is still missing and you know you can't stay with him. Do yourself and him both a favor and follow your gut instincts!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    What makes you not like him find out and try to sort it out.

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  • Monkeybutts
    10 years ago

    Its not normal and I know that because I am the exact same way. He is def "not the one" because u don't have second thoughts whether someone is the one or not you just know. I do the same thing but instead I just never pursue the guys. I move on becuz I don't like to play with ppl feelings. Just recently I like this guy and we flirt a lot. But i realized he was like that with a bunch of girls and although I feel special because when he is with me it seems different it still unknown his feelings so I convince myself I hate him one day and then I like him the next. Its a mental game that I am playing with myself but at the end of the day I am undecided because I don't want to get hurt. Do you think he will hurt u? R u scared to b with him? Is he your "type" or some guy that just stole ur heart and u don't even know how?

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  • college
    10 years ago

    It's still relatively early in the relationship so I wouldn't worry about this too much. No one ever likes their partner all the time, so it's normal. Though it could present a problem in the future if you dislike him for a reason that you're unable to determine.

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  • herecomestheasshole
    10 years ago

    no you silly bipolar bitch get your shit together

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