Is it normal that a boy is stronger than my 30 year boyfriend?

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I thought my boyfriend was strong enough to protect me, but when I saw him in the gym the other day, he was only bench pressing one hundred pounds and a small middle school boy (12 years old, 105ish pound, but a lot of lean muscle because he is on his middle school's wrestling team....I guess) was doing more. They were having wrestling and grappling classes that day at my gym. HE talked me into taking the class. The coach in there was the coach of the middle school wrestling team. he matched my boyfriend against this boy, and my boyfriend laughed. The boy wiped the mat with him, putting him in holds to the point my boyfriend's face was red and he looked like he wanted to cry. There was at least a 40lb difference and my bf was taller. I thought that was pretty pathetic and embarrassing for him and me. My boyfriend is 31. Girls? My boyfriend isn't athletic, but he is in decent shape: runs and exercises. He's a healthy 155-160 and his man root is more than fine. Is he just weak? Should we lay off the sex? He does Masturbate too when we're away. Or was this twelve year old boy just strong for his age and size because he was athletic and wrestled for his middle school?

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  • (.)(.)boobies
    9 years ago | pl

    The reason he lost might not have anything to do with his strength. The boy might be highly skilled at wrestling and know how to take down people larger than him. Just like how a small woman can learn jiu jitsu to take down a large attacker. Skill is often more important than strength.

    But why are you so critical of your boyfriend for not appearing physically dominant over a child?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Strength means nothing when you go against someone who has had significant training in self defensive and or fighting stragedies and you have had none yourself. This is still embarrasing though. I guess this means you are going to break up with your boyfriend and start dating the tougher male...the 12 year old boy..

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    Wrestling is usually more technique than strength. If you really want your boyfriend to physically dominate a child, take him to a playground and have him challenge the kids there to arm-wrestling matches.

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    • rsherri
      9 years ago

      Haha...the boy is hardly a child. He's on his middle school's wrestling team. BUT.....

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    • Mersaphe
      9 years ago

      Lol that's a funny mental image

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  • Johnnytherat
    9 years ago

    Your boyfriend is a pussy.

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    • (.)(.)boobies
      9 years ago

      Says the rat.

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      • Johnnytherat
        9 years ago

        Say it with your chest like this! SAYS THE RAT! *flexes*

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        • shuggy-chan
          9 years ago

          yes...say it with your chest >8D

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  • Itsme_smiles
    9 years ago

    Haha he needs to hit the weight I can bench significantly more than him and I'm half his age...

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  • ScooterNyne
    9 years ago

    You sound way more pathetic than your boyfriend. But that ain't non of my business.

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    • rsherri
      9 years ago

      But your name kind of sounds silly, but that isn't my business either.

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    I don't know. I would seriously be WAY more disturbed if the man I was dating fucking body slammed and destroyed a 12 year old child and then bragged about it.

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    • shuggy-chan
      9 years ago

      OOHHHHH YEAAHHHH BROTHER!!!!!

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      • CountessDouche
        9 years ago

        *gives shuggy a taste of her flying elbow drop

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    • rsherri
      9 years ago

      It isn't WWE and this boy is above the average 12 for his age and size.

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