Is it normal that 23 yo guy love 13 yo girl
i mean can she understand and feel the love at this age and can we get married in the next 4 years .
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AB1234
"Normal"? Historically, I'd say yes. It's also taboo. But then again, culture and taboo don't necessarily dictate true tastes.
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JaObnimashkiTrebujuObnimashki
Well, you need to give us more information to give us an answer that close to definitive.
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LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#Z6
This is quite a persistent OP JaObnimashkiTrebujuObnimashki, how about we delete every mother loving comment on this entire elephant trunk, because we have the capability to do so...
How does that make the IIN community feel?
I said it before and I'll say it again, Ellenna needs to die.
Make IIN great again, eliminate the elephant trunk.
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FORUMidableFucker
No she can't feel the love, don't fool yourself most people just think love is settling down and having sex with someone who is okay;that is sad. Quit beating your meat and get out of the sheets.
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Tealights
I agree with AbnormallyAwesome.
Let the girl enjoy her childhood and grow up first. She's going to change, she will develop crushes on boys her age, and she may even get a boyfriend, or girlfriend (you never know). Her self-esteem will fluxuiate, she will make mistakes, and more. You can't expect a child, still in middle school, just hitting puperty to make such a promise to a grown man that she'll marry him when she's 17 or 18. Be realistic.
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walkingdildo
Like AbAwe says, let her have her childhood.
I think you are obsessing over her innocence, or something similar. You need to get out of her life if you can, for her sake.
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AbnormallyAwesome
She's way too young, I'm sorry. You have to be the grown up and accept that she's a child. She will go through a lot of changes in the next few years, so even if she had feelings for you now, that doesen't mean anything.
Think of yourself when you were 13. I bet your sexuality and your concept of love has changed dramatically since then.
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mysistersshadow
Whats wrong can't deal with women that aren't young and naive? Sounds weak and insecure. Which only validates why I'm not interested in guys your age.
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NeilYounger
Dude you've got some serious issues. Better hope the rest of the inmates don't find out about this when you go to jail. You'll be somebody's bitch for sure.
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Ratmanisafag
Sort of like how you're the bitch of this entire website. Nobody likes you and wishes you would die. You fucking dumbass pussy.
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NeilYounger
Amazing! And here I thought worms only come out at night. Do us all a favor and ooze back into your muddy hole loser. Then again, stay above ground for a while longer. I think the crows are still feeding. Maybe one of them will swoop down from a telephone wire and clip you in it's beak. One can only hope.
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jethro
It didn't stop Jerry Lee Lewis. Mohammed's last wife was 12. And Michael Jackson liked boys that were younger than 13.
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Tempest-au
Mohammed's last wife was actually 6, but the marriage wasn't consummated until she was 9 or 10
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jethro
I didn't make a judgement call. I simply stated a few facts. Society will make the determination of right or wrong. In Jerry Lee Lewis' day, marrying your 13 year old cousin was perfectly normal in the south. And Islam approves of child brides. Michael Jackson's fans see nothing wrong with a 40 year old man sleeping with preteen boys who are not his children while paying off their parents. In Australia, right now, they are importing girls as young as 5 years old to be married off to older men. It happens everywhere because one society says it is acceptable and another says it isn't. So who is to say what really right? It depends on which side of society you reside.
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Ellenna
Who are "they" importing child brides into Australia? I live here and I've never heard of that.
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jethro
http://www.news.com.au/national/visa-alarm-over-imported-teen-brides/story-e6frfkvr-1226187186422
http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/visa-alarm-over-imported-teen-brides/story-e6freon6-1226187186422
Here are a couple of articles. East to find if you just look.
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GuardianoftheHumanRace
Equating a 13-year-old in this type of situation to a 5-year-old in the same type of situation as well is the most preposterous, esoteric thing that ever heard of in my entire, motherfucking life!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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NeilYounger
Hey, here's an idea: Why not take a gun and blow your own brains out. Not only would I thoroughly enjoy that, you'd also make this world a better place.
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walkingdildo
A little harsh. The guy is clearly confused and unsure.
Aggressive and exclusionary language is what drives paedophiles to hide in the shadows together. What needs to be done is to say "we know you can't help your feelings, but they will be damaging, so let's help you have a healthy view."
As the guy appears to have no intent on harming the girl in any way, cut him some slack and start positively. The man is not a criminal until he commits a crime, just like everyone else.
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walkingdildo
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NeilYounger
This creep needs to be strung up by his balls. You sound like a reasonable medical professional. I'm obviously not in a reasonable frame of mind when it comes to pedophiles. I have a daughter. If I could meet this creep face to face I would do him some major bodily harm. I will never coddle a pedophile. Never. So this creep better pray that you get a hold of him "Doc" before I do. Good night.
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walkingdildo
Firstly, I am not a doctor, I am just seeing it through reasoned eyes.
Whilst I sympathize with your position, you must understand that the only way we can help these people to not commit a crime is not become passionate about the subject. In these sorts of situations people like I who have no children, and therefore don't understand what it means to have children, are actually the best people for this job.
I also think you don't understand what it is like to be attracted to young girls. It is actually really quite natural and uncontrollable that men are attracted to girls when they hit puberty. It's millions of years of evolution in the making. Unfortunately, something, somewhere in human history has gone wrong, and females are reaching puberty before they're biologically or even psychologically ready.
I will confess that when I was 19, I was in a short relationship with a 15 year old. I was on good terms with the parents, even after I decided to break it off, and we never engaged in any sexual activity, /despite/ her quite possibly immature desire to lose her virginity to me when she turned 16 (which, I would point out, I did not let happen).
How do you feel about homosexuality? Do these people choose to be sexually attracted to those of the same sex? Because I can assure you, those who are attracted to those physically too young to bear children but their biological clock has started ticking cannot help it.
I don't know where you live, but I can highly recommend watching the Channel 4 documentary "The Paedophile Next Door". Unfortunately, I assume due to public perception, the narrator has a tendency to spit out the word "paedophile", but generally the tone of the program is about coming to terms with the uncontrollability of these sexual attractions and talking with some who are sexually attracted to the legally underaged but continue to hold their desires back for the good of everyone.
I would add, however, that I believe sexual or romantic attraction to persons who have not even reached puberty to be a mental illness. I do not, however, believe it to be a mental illness after they start puberty but rather an unfortunate part of human condition that we just have to rein in.
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mrbrownfinger
Have you fucked her yet? You're going to split her tiny cunt in two when you do
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LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#Z6