Is it normal that 14 year olds arent virgins?

Well, I have been seeing a lot of things lately. Like for instance this girl goes to her boyfriend julians house and spends the night with her two friends that are dating also, they all spend the night. At 14 ! And they are screwing eachother because julian tells me. Well, I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin. Is that normal?

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48% Normal
Based on 407 votes (197 yes)
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Comments ( 49 )
  • I dropped in unexpectedly on some middle schoolers having sex once. Hacked them all up with a hatchet I did.

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  • dappled

    Boys have lied about having sex for millennia. I wouldn't necessarily believe Julian.

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  • gako

    Wayyy too young to be having sex.

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  • cheesey530

    14 year olds fucking isn't normal...

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  • lottolose

    Whores

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  • amazin'manda

    listening to you..you seem to be quite responsible to still be a virgin at 18....everyone is different....maybe this girl felt pressurised....which no fe/male should experience but sadly do..... programs and stories are made up to show the less responsible people in this world

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  • UnderDogg

    Of course... asking people on this site is in many cases like asking Charles Manson for a moral compass. Its just not practical and a waste of time most of the time. Its still fun though. ;o

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  • Altruistic-Tendencies

    not sick in a good way

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  • It's normal as u pussies. It's not rape they know what they are doing. I blow my first load when I was nine, thanks for the memories mum.

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  • slytheringirl

    No, this is in no way normal! I find it sad that fourteen year olds loose their virginity so young. You sound very mature to keep your virginity untill you are older.

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    • ebulliance

      Did you post that shit on Yahoo Answers? About my favorite person being dead? You know what that did? Made me punch out my window and have nightmares. He is a good person. I don't care what people say. Dedicated my life to him.

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  • this is normal, ive known a person who lost her v-card @ 12.

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  • RentingEmotion

    In this time, its normal to not be a virgin at 12...sadly.

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  • UnderDogg

    Most people loose thier virginity around theyre early teens nowadays. Its definately normal.

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  • kittylitter101

    Perfectly normal, they just want to act like an adult by committing adult acts. You actually are the adult and although you're a virgin, you're still more mature than them

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  • winstonsmith1986

    Only 400 years ago women were old maids at 18 women were wed and traded for live stock starting at 12... Read Jane Eyre. It is not uncommon for early teens to have sex. The right time is not a year its a mental and physical state of development unique and different for each person. Children will become interested in sex when they are ready for it. The only time it is the wrong time is when the teenager has nobody around to offer them safe sex advice and more importantly emotional guidance. If more people did that one on one with their children this website wouldn't be full of under 18 year old people asking questions a role model should be answering.

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  • 362led

    My friend lost it at 13 at will

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  • KeddersPrincess

    It's even sadder that so many 14 year olds are supporting it. Ignorance is bliss.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    It's even sadder that 10 year olds are. What is this world coming to?

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  • batman1234

    A slut means sleeping around with multiple guys not sleeping with a guy at a young age.

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  • underager

    Being a virgin at 14 is kind of old and spinsterish....get on with popping that cherry already!!!!!!

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  • good on you but satan will punish you with a cactus in the bum for being dirty whores

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  • Excellent to her. Sex is fucking great fun.

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  • Get involved in it. Double penetration wwwhhooo

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  • georgienne

    Its disgusting and disappointing, but yeah it happens.

    The way I see it is that if you hold off til you're 18, good on you.
    If you did it before but regretted it, or think back and wouldn't have minded holding off 'til 18, fine.
    If you still think it was a good idea at the time, get your head checked.

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  • DestroyedSepulchre

    Sadly, yes.

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  • FinDuMonde

    Yes, it is totally normal for 14 year olds to have had sex! Chill out and come into the 21st century.

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  • Ramit10

    In my school I have heard of 13 year olds havin sex and the one girl was 14 i was 17 and almost hooked up with her until i found out how old she was she seriously looked like she was my age.

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  • xxxMissFitxxx

    Hahahaaahahahaaa JULIAN is a well funny name!

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  • andrelo_06

    NOT normal

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  • Uzzie101

    It's normal. I don't think it's right, but it's normal.

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  • BoredGuy

    not normal. you will get bored of sex very early

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  • portalmasterx7

    I don't it matters when its a natural thing there a 40 year old virgins and there are 12 year old non virgins its not wrong unless forced

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  • 12koft

    No that's not normal. If you are 14 and having sex you are a slut. I know two people one who lost their virginity at 12 and the other at 8 and it makes me want to puke.

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    • BonestoPaste

      8?! That's insane!

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  • i heard there was like this kid he lost his virginity at like 9..he was playing doctor and it went too far

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  • stephaybabe

    nope it isn't its disgusting I think that parents should control their kids and stop them having sex at such a young age. Then again most of the girls and boys that do it keep secrets from their parents and lie to them and just well are just really immature

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  • ladytron17

    Meh, sadly in these days it's pretty normal. Not acceptable, but you're definitely not the only person seeing this happen.

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  • BoredGuy

    not normal

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  • dot_r_loser

    I'm 18 now, and I lost my virginity at 14.
    And i'm still dating the guy I lost it to! I think it's okay to be doing things like that at 14, 15. As long as you got a good mind on your shoulders.

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  • GothBabe

    I lost my V at 14. It happens. Deal with it.

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    • Terence_the_viking

      That show was awesome pity they cancelled it

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  • Wicked999

    there is a reason why ther's a law that says you cant have sex before you're 16. kids at the age of 14 dont really know what they are doing.

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  • HeyHiHelloGabi

    Like someone above me stated, sadly 14 year olds having sex is the norm. Although, it depends on how old your friend Julian is, at fourteen she is still considered a child and under the law isn't able to consent.
    I'm eighteen and still a virgin also, so I can tell you from my experience that it is completely normal.

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  • Idkwhatishoulddo

    I'd say it is normal. I'm 14 and lost my virginity last yr so yeah...

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  • tyraalexis00

    That is not normal when i was around that age i was scared to have sex because its more likly to get pregers yhur frist time at an young age than an older not normal but being at vrigin at 18 is normal

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  • Altruistic-Tendencies

    14 year old virgins are sick, my sis knows someone who lost their virginity at 12.

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  • blandy

    You ask two different questions here each with different answers. No it's not normal for 14 year olds to be having rampant sex. Where are these kids parents that they can just stay over each others houses and no adult notices or cares that they're having sex? Yes it is normal to still be a virgin at 18 and youll be a hell of alot better off having waited than these people will be.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    YES it's normal!!!

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