Is it normal tha that i have no empathy for the guys i like?

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For some reason, when I like a guy I don't seem to have any empathy for him. When he is in pain or burdened, I don't care, and infact, I usually find pleasure in it. I have empathy for other people, just not the guys I crush on. Is this normal?

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    You're half psychopath.

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  • Shiny_Down
    11 years ago

    It means that you're some kind of emotional sadist. Some guys like being treated like trash. You'll find someone, eventually.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      But if they like it then I wouldn't enjoy it.

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      • mightymouse
        11 years ago

        Interesting reading: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy

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  • FrancoisDillinger
    11 years ago

    Sounds like maybe you don't mind or find a little pleasure in it because you don't think they're interested.

    You said you don't feel empathy for the guys YOU'RE crushing on. Could this be because you don't see them as possibly having feelings for you?

    Maybe it makes you feel a little better to see them suffer in a way you may be because of your feelings for them. Idk.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Nah. it's more like I don't feel like they're people, for some reason.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    11 years ago

    This sounds like a job for... FREUD!

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  • NotStrangeBird
    11 years ago

    You're gonna make a lot of money off a lot of chumps. Start shopping for a good divorce lawyer now.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I don't get it.

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      • NotStrangeBird
        11 years ago

        I simply am making a half-joke about the fact that some women make a career of marrying and divorcing for money. Your post kind of leans in that direction.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Nah. Funny joke, but I don't care about money. I actually find myself more attracted to men with less money because it makes me feel superior to them, and I always think of myself more as the bread winner.

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          • [Old Memory]
            11 years ago

            I am broke. We should date so i can spend all of your money.

            Lol jk

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  • yesnomaybeso
    11 years ago

    Wow I'd never heard of that before. Are you sure you like them?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Yes.

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