Is it normal tha i have a crush on my third cousin?

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Ok so im christian and incest is bad apperently, so does it count as that? because ive had a crush on my third cousin fo about 4 years now and ive told her i loved her and shes said it back to me. problem is she lives out of state and the few times i get to see her its always arounf]d family and wen never get to be alone together because everyone seems to know we have something going on but they dont know what. so should i just tell my family? would they accept it? is it the right thing to do? im lost.

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  • KaffeInjection
    11 years ago

    Screw Religion follow your heart....

    I think you are one lucky pal, and if you ever drill her Cooch make sure to use a Condom.

    Both if you both agree to do it in the Browniehole make sure to use alot of lube, and give it to her slowly.

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  • MilleBornes
    11 years ago

    it's completely normal to be attracted to a beautiful female. We are taught that some people are off limits. I.e. family. Like racist people make their children feel bad about another race dating them.

    If you believe this is wrong, ask why. You're both of age or the same age so no one's hurting anyone. If you aren't able to travel to see her visa versa, this shows that you're not on your own. I would keep it to ourselves until we were able to do whatever. Also means, maybe you don't know what real love is. Infatuation is tricky.

    Try just living life where you are, let her live hers and when you're able to be together, see if you still want to.

    Again. You are normal.

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    • TheKidDownTheBlock
      11 years ago

      Thanks it helps a bit if all we have is a budding relationship then when do I do something?

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      • MilleBornes
        11 years ago

        As I said, when you two are able, capable, of being together When either you or her, or both, can make a plan. I see nothing wrong with incest I never use the word unless the subject comes up. We have been taught from generation to generation, and society still views it as wrong. Chances are, your parents are part of the society which would do everything they could to make sure you two don't see each other If you're in a position to where you're not on your own, you'll have no choice but to be relentlessly ridiculed. when you're on your own, you and her, it doesn't matter who says what, you won't have to deal with it, and don't have to even hear it.

        Get your things together, establish whether the relationship will last, move in together establish once more it will last, then I would say something to whomever you deem worthy to know

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  • 0404
    11 years ago

    family should not date its not right or normal sorry to say.

    all the best in life.

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  • Epsilon1
    6 years ago

    3rd cousin is far enough to avoid genetic issues, so it technically isn’t incest...

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  • Straight-hair
    11 years ago

    Same here I've got a kinda crush on my second cousin And he/she (u dint need to no) lives in another state too.

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  • baronroderick
    11 years ago

    The Bible has a lot of very specific condemnations of incest, but doesn't forbid cousin marriage at all. Look the Wikipedia for Incest in the Bible. Also, most countries allow cousins (even 1st cousins) to legally marry, sometimes with restritions. Most churches also do so. I can't see why your families should be upset, then. Listen to your heart.

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