Is it normal tha i cant move fast enough to please him?
I am a girl and 19. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I still cannot stand having sex. on top One of the main reasons is because my guy is constantly trying to get me to "ride him faster." It makes me feel like I am failing and I get very self concious about my body and the fact that I cannot "go fast enough." on bottom its because my guy is constantly trying to get me to "tighten up and go faster"... how am i supposed to do that on the bottom? and i orgasm but he can't because he says im "too wet" down there and "loose"... whatever that means, like he can't feel anything. It makes me feel like I am failing again. I have the same problem while trying to give him a blow job or a hand job. I can't move my head "fast enough" and he tries to get me to go faster so I feel like a failure and stop. also he wants me to do "deeper" and i have awful gag reflexes. I can't move my hand "fast enough" even when he's, uh "slippery" and i dont know why, feel like his penis just wont move through my hand comfortably. am i grpping to tight? i though my hand was supposed to be all the way round it but... and when i do get up speed i cant seem to maintain it for very long. sometimes I even start to cry because I feel like I can't please him. Is this normal behavior for a guy, and I am being overly sensitive, or should he respect the fact that I am not the best sex partner in the world due to the fact that I never get enough practice because I refuse to do these things anymore. I just can't stand feeling like a failure and not being able to do it right. Any advice would be great.
| Yes | 4 | |
| NO | 2 | |
| You should put in more effort. | 3 | |
| Hes an asshole and you havent done anything wrong. | 15 | |
| I dont know about this...... | 1 |