Is it normal speaking correctly is totally throwing everyone off?

Well I decided that I needed to be a better person. I cant tell if I was better before or I am better now. Before my behavior was very mechanical as I had a calculated way of responding to things. I had a giant web of dos and do nots, and a list of responses I could give to every question, response and how to respond to every discussion.

Needless to say this puts an extreme amount of stress on someone and I eventually ended up losing it. Recently I tossed out my system, said it was worthless, said I was a terrible person and am starting over. However I did not want to appear as a complete moron so I started correcting my speech.

I started using the legitimate terms for things and took most of the "incorrect" speech patterns most people develop, out of my vocabulary. Such as "lets hang out man" which many would not understand how to phrase in any other way, since we are so accustomed to speaking this way.

I no longer have the amount of energy or effort required to make my giant web. Being on all the time was a huge amount of stress. However if you cant always have the correct response, you should at least not sound stupid when you speak. However me speaking correctly seems to totally be throwing people off. Either everyone ends up turning their heads like "What did you just say" or else people become enchanted by this. Which I find odd since I am now enchanting to people who before found me obnoxious.