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I like bondage but i dont know how to tell my bf that i like it in fear that he wont like it. Im also afraid that if i do a surprise "attack", something will go wrong and i will hurt him... Any suggestions?
a surprise attack would be a bad idea. Bondage and BDSM is actually really normal these days. It is just something that a lot of people keep in the bedroom. Although there is a growing trend of bondage parties where people go and pay a mistress or a master money to humiliate and abuse them. you can find things like this on craigslist. Don't ask me how I know that...**Blows load
After 50 shades of grey was published, people all over stopped thinking people with bondage fetish's were freaks. To me I've never really been interested in it, but a lot of people are in to BDSM, enough to say it's normal.
You could try joining a BDSM group for beginners. They might be able to give you tips on getting him interested and willing to try.
What you could do is to start gently and just ask him if he wants to try something out. You should do some reading and make sure that you don't tie to hard.
Always have a scissor nearby and introduce him slowly.
Or you could just throw the question out there too.
Though I doubt he'd object if you gently tied him up with soft ropes and started to blow him.