Is it normal she's not scared of me?

I met a girl and after some time getting to know me, she found out I had a violent history of an incident hurting my ex and choking someone. She actually knew about it before I knew she did and the reason I know is because she told me. Yet she never showed any signs of fear or running away nor does she guilt trip or blame me but rather laughs at these incidents like they're middle school playground fights.

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Based on 38 votes (14 yes)
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  • Shackleford96

    She probably knows she could kick your sorry ass all over the place if she wanted too XD

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  • bleach_baby

    Maybe she's not scared cuz she's carrying a shank. DIDN'T OCCUR TO YOU, DID IT PUSSY

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    What was it that brought you to hospitalize a girl? I don't understand the reasoning behind doing such a thing.

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    • Finally the right question was asked. Thank you.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        At the risk of being misconstrued as sexist, I don't understand how guys think it is okay to beat up helpless individuals. I know there are some woman out there that can kick my ass, but by and large hitting a woman is picking on a helpless individual. From now on, anybody that feels like they want to hit a woman has an open invitation to come take it up with me instead.

        That is a subject that my dad was VERY clear about when raising me, and something that I feel strongly about as well.

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        • Couldnt agree more. 100%

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  • I'm sorry, but you people are trying to boost the female gender's strength. Men are stronger than women, and if they two were to fight, the male would kick the female in, no contest. I'm not saying he should be allowed to, neither should the female, but don't kid yourself in to thinking "she can take him". Just because he hit a woman doesn't mean he is not as physically strong or stronger than men that don't.

    My point being is that she is being stupid in taking this chance. If she thinks not having her gaurd up atleast a bit to this man just incase he does to her what he done to his ex, then she lacks survival skills. If she thinks she can "take him", she lacks survival skills.

    I have a feeling you might be one of these guys girls find attractive, and simply because of that, they'll avoid your nature and past incidents, again, no survival skills.

    As for what you done to your girlfriend, my opinion depends on why you done it.
    If she deserved it, truelly deserved it, then, I know people will dislike this comment just for this part alone, then welldone for acting on the matter, not giving in to the "men shouldn't hit women no matter what, even if they deserve it" thing society is putting up all the time.
    If you just attacked her for no reason, out of the blue, then I can't say I feel emotional at all about it, but I know that it was wrong of you to do, and you really need to check yourself. Hitting anybody with no real reason is something you should never do, ever. And if what you done was out of the blue, then I don't think that girl should be in a relationship with you until you get your act together.

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  • GreyWarden

    Maybe she's seen a softer side? People never want to believe in the man eating monster when all they see at first is a cuddly teddy near. Especially good people who are romantically attached to you. It's human for her to want to believe more in the teddy than the bear.

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  • oops91

    It is not normal. People told me that my exgirlfriend used to get around and I wasnt scared of that fact. i know highly fear a bust down.

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  • a bad tempered bully, some boyfriend!

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  • I'm not going to try to protect my innocence but she had to go to the hospital simply because she had insurance and it was mandatory that if any accident, no matter what, were to occur, she would be sent to the hospital. That was the first happening of violence throughout the whole five to six years we've been together. I did not feel any sense of satisfaction at the act too.

    Now I can't figure if this new girl that just came into the story during this time of stress is mad. She doesn't even flinch, not even with physical contact though she has always been prudent (even before she knew). I'm confused about how psychology works now, I usually imagine girls running away like I'm the devil, or worse, Ted Bundy.

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  • Justsomejerk

    Why should she be scared? It's not like you fight with men or anything, she's probably feeling secure in the fact she knows she could take you.

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  • Not all women are delicate doilies.

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  • Definitely girls can hit, it's just that the incident led to hospitalization which I think would be uncomfortable for a girl.

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  • Uh yeah, i've done the same to girlfriends that pissed me off and i still get chicks. No one gives a fuck about "slut abuse" as i call it.

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    • Does it make you feel like a man? Why not try shaking elementary kids down for their lunch money? They certainly cant put up much of a fight.

      Nothing is tougher then picking on those that are noticably weaker then you are.

      I know your trolling, but its still stupid.

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      • Well not really a troll. I have been in trouble for domestic fights a few times, i inherited my mothers hair trigger temper. I've been in plenty of fights with people who were bigger than me, so it evens itself out.

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        • TurtleGrandPrix

          It doesn't mean anything if they're bigger than you, if they can actually fight back then you can say that "it evens itself out".

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          • A bigger guy than me who fights as well as i can? How is that not even?

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            • TurtleGrandPrix

              Does punching your defenseless girlfriend and fighting with big guys prove anything? We shouldn't really be considering if the fight was even, this is not a game or sport; you're still the guy who thinks punching people is acceptable.

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