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She always says that next time we'll do this and go there but we never do. Is she just leading me on, using me.
If I confront her it might mean the end of the relationship, but I don't know if I can keep going on like this, always being disappointed.
I've known a lot of girls who say they will do things like hangout tomorrow, or call me when they get home and other empty promises and then I don't hear from them for a week.
It's best to not get too attached to people who do this. I do not understand why they cannot just say they wont show up or call instead of acting interested and then ignoring.
1. Have you ever done this with her?
2. She could be passive-aggressive.
3. You could always leave her or, you could have a serious discussion about this.
1. No
2. Not the type
3. if I serious discuss it with her I'm afraid it will result in me leaving her.
Thats what you NEED to do because why the heck would u be in a relationship and your partner doesnt even talk to you?! You should tell her!! And maybe she will tell you why she is doing this!! Or if she gets offened by your questions, just say "FUCK YOU, BECAUSE YOU AINT ANSWERING MY TEXTSS AND YOU NOT CALLIN OR TEXTIN ME BAK WHEN U SAY U ARE SO BITCH ITS OVER!!"
Good point. Being afraid of speaking your mind in a relationship is one way of knowing that the relationship you are in is definitely dysfunctional. Heck, it was already dysfunctional with this woman and her behavior toward the OP. If the OP doesn't take a stand and demand to know what is going on, she'll continue to walk over the OP and the relationship will continue being dysfunctional and imbalanced. Negativity is never healthy.