Is it normal she blames me for her actions?

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On wednesday I talked a girl from uni in to giving me a blow job. At the time she wanted it and liked doing it. But now she says I manipulated her betrayed our friendship and even mouth raped her. Thats bullshit because she was completely sober and knew what she was getting into so no one was responsible for her but herself. Its not my fault she did it if she didnt want to she could of not done it I didnt force her to do anything. But shes convinced herself that its my fault somehow and if she decides to make a fuss about it then Im fucked even though I didnt do anything wrong. If I cant relax and get sucked off by a consenting girl then I dont know what I can do.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Just the way the world is.
    "I want to be respected equally to men, but I can't take responsibility for my actions".

    Honestly, what did you think would happen? She could be on top, with you tied to the bed, and she would still believe "you" forced her in to it, and the law would agree.

    It is ridiculous.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Dude, ditch this broad, she being a whiny bitch and you don't need that bullshit in your life. Nice one actually talking her into sucking you off man, major props.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    It depends if you were aggressive, manipulative or wouldn't back off when she resisted as you "talked her into" it. As a general rule, if you have to persuade someone into doing something with you then you'd be better off just leaving them alone.

    You're not a "mouth rapist". It depends on the context if what you did was wrong or not though.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    She probably regretted it and can not deal with her own actions. I would need more information to make a good comment either way.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    some girls are like that.

    they're ashamed that they willingly engaged in a sexual act, so... it's easier on their egos to convince themselves that they were "forced".

    i'd say your best bet would be to avoid her
    cos it sounds like she's been dipping herself in crazy

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  • cupcake_wants
    11 years ago

    Well, for 1 reason or another she regretted it. You should respect her feelings, & tell her ur sorry that she ended up feeling this way. Did u coerce her in any way? If so, shame on u! Don't ever do that again if that's the case. If not, it could be she's just an immature, fickle girl that doesnt know what she wants. If that's the case, try somebody older/more mature next time.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    You should ask her to repeat the same action again and if after she continues to feel abused then you'll apologise:)

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    • cupcake_wants
      11 years ago

      Wtf ever, dingbat

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