Is it normal sex doesn't turn me on?

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I need some help. I have a problem. I am 18 and i had sex a month ago with a guy. I am guy myself. Before that i really was looking into sex. Everything would really turn me on. After the sex, it really sounds nasty to me right now. I watch porn without getting turned on. A guy was giving me a blow job also and i didn't feel anything. Jerking off feels a little better. Is there anything i should do about that? Anything would help. Please.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Sounds like your turned off by actually guys

    Which is a good thing

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      Well, thinking about girls haven't really ever turned me on.

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        its okay to have sexual feelings for girls, its natural :)

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        • Alb
          7 years ago

          Thank you.
          Those girls are super beautiful. I know it is Ok. All my life I wish I were attracted to them sexuslly. I still do.

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          • sandnigga
            7 years ago

            you sound like a hindu or something haha

            is it that you dont feel emotion or something?

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            • Alb
              7 years ago

              How do Hindus sound? Lol.

              Well, I don't know how to explain that. The same way you feel about guys I guess. (You straight guy right?)

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        what about these girls?

        http://www.hbc333.com/data/out/57/47033517-cute-girls-pic.jpeg

        http://www.pixelstalk.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Cute-girls-hd-images.jpg

        http://akimg3.ask.fm/assets2/020/076/720/640/normal/1922254_1401320473474148_572143365_n.jpg

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  • mastermasterbator
    7 years ago

    You have to abstain from sexual activity for at least a month, thereafter you may slowly start masterbating and soon you will be fine again!

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      I hope that works. Thanks.

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  • ZaneT
    7 years ago

    Try to find a life balance instead of putting sex at the centre. If you're not gay, stop acting gay.

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      It's not like all I think about is sex actually. I do have a life.
      It's not like I forced myself Into being gay.

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  • Alb
    7 years ago

    Thank you I appreciate it.
    I haven't really developed anything right now but I will try that.

    You lost me right at the end. :P. I really hope I am stuck with one of those two. Thanks again. (Probably my expectation of sex were really high).

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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    Maybe you're not gay, but probably you just watch too much porn. Get your bloodwork done and testosterone checked regardless.

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      Well, I have watched porn the same even before I had sex. Thank you tho.

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  • getridofcrossdressingfaggots
    7 years ago

    Stop being gay.

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      Cux that'd how it works?

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  • opprehensive
    6 years ago

    Maybe you hyped up the idea of sex so much that actually doing it was a le down. Fyi the first time with someone new especially since you are inexperienced is usually not amazing. Takes time to learn how you both tick.

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  • Dylankle
    7 years ago

    asexual?

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  • Normality-is-subjective
    7 years ago

    Sexuality is complicated. It's possible that what you thought would excite you just didn't end up exciting you. It could be just guys, just this specific guy, or it could be possible that you are asexual, which is not having sexual attraction altogether. I've struggled a lot with sexuality myself, so I wish you the best. Hang in there.

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      Thanks!
      What did you do tho?

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  • DingDongCabong
    7 years ago

    Hey! Maybe you're asexual or demisexual? I am demisexual and i only care about having sex with someone i love. i never get turned on by anyone really except for him

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      probably. I will check when I fall in love then.
      Thank you!! :)

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  • randypete
    7 years ago

    just let it happen naturally

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      Thanks.

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  • gyarikkuhou
    7 years ago

    Maybe u need some romance in your life, you know, like someone, casual fuck and porn may bother some after a while.

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    • Alb
      7 years ago

      Thanks. I will try that.

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