Is it normal rape fetish?

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I am a 20 year old girl and I have sexually fantasies about being taken advantage of by some handsome strong man and then ending up liking it or being rescued from that same man by someone else and then having sex with them. I guess it's like a damsel in distress kind of thing. I feel horrible because I know the crime of rape is devestating to people who are actually victims and I wouldn't want to offend them because this makes me feel like a weirdo and I have never actually told a boyfriend this. Am I normal?

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Based on 179 votes (165 yes)
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  • jhollow
    14 years ago

    This type of fetish is completl normal... Very Normal. Do a online search on "rape fetish" and you'll find out just how normal it is. I acted out a rape fetish "role play" for a friend of mine. She loved it, and thanked me by acting out one of mine. Even though it may not be common, it is normal to have the rape fantasy.

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  • guppygirl
    13 years ago

    This is a difficult topic.

    I was taken advantage by an older man when I was 20, and trust me, it was not likeable.

    However, I'm with a steady boyfriend now that I trust completely and loves me like mad. He would never ask me for that but I could see us being okay with roleplay like that...as long as we were *very* strict about what he could and could not do/say.

    I think as long as you are sensitive about the topic, and realize that this is nothing more than a fantasy, and that you know that the real thing is horrific..then i guess you're not hurting anyone.

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  • DEATHBRINGER1232
    9 years ago

    I think its normal... Honestly I've had a rape fetish for awhile... And fascist assholes kept saying its "sick" Don't listen to there shit! Everyone has the right to what arouses them! And as long as its like role playing. And not actual rape. There's absolutely nothing sick or wrong about it!

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  • DemonnPrincess
    12 years ago

    I was raped from when I was seven until I was sixteen. I read about where you said that you did not want to offend anyone, so from me, I will say this: whenever I hear someone fantasizing about rape, it makes me very angry because something that practically killed my soul and ruined my life is being desensitized so dramatically. But with you, I do not get that. I educated myself and know that rape fantasies are extremely normal. Even when I was being abused I fantasized about them, but not in a sexual way though...it's hard to explain. But you are not offending me, so that means there are more who you may not be offending. The hurt part of me liked that you said you felt horrible(forgive me for that) and the understanding part of me is telling me to tell you to not be ashamed please. Please don't feel bad. I am jealous you have the freedom to think of rape in this form and not be taken to a dark unforgettable place. What you feel is normal. <3

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    That's sick

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  • Imonlyagirl8
    10 years ago

    It's not rape if you like it. ;)

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