Is it normal prison relationships

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Me and My fiance have been engaged for 5 months...he was in jail for 4 months and was moved to prison and has been there for the past month and a half. he calls when he can put money on the phone but mainly we write letters back and forth. is it normal to worry about him writing other girls?i honestly don't think he would be but its just something that i get nervous and worry about...is that normal?

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Based on 68 votes (31 yes)
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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It's a legitimate fear because your relationship is based only in your correspondence as opposed to a reality you share. I would imagine the same fear could exist if you'd struck up a long distance relationship with someone in another country. From experience, I think people in this types of relationship are likely to be faithful/unfaithful as in any form of relationship, so I wouldn't let his environment be a particular concern to you.

    If he's a faithful person, he'll be faithful whether he's in prison or not. The only note of caution would be that he may have more time on his hands than he would when he's out and so if he is unfaithful, he has the opportunity. This isn't a comment on his fidelity, though.

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  • EbonyMT
    9 years ago

    Welp.. there is no real way to know if he does or not (write to others) other then trust. If you don't trust the guy why are you still with him? Good luck!

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  • nyanlexxy
    11 years ago

    Just so everyone knows...they don't all take showers together lolol

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    Ask him if anybody drops the soap! My advice...dont pick it up.

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  • nyanlexxy
    11 years ago

    Gay jokes...original =^.^=

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  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    trust is a big thing in relationships. You have to be able to trust one another that the other's loyalties lie with you. If you have your doubts about this, then I have doubts about your relationship. If you have felt like this irrationally in past relationships maybe its more of an anxiety thing. But good on you for remaining loyal to your partner during his solitary confinement, you may help him find redemption and a new life and that is beautiful.

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