Is it normal please i need help!!!

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Why is it that I cant vent to my husband? He complains about me talking to anyone else but him, and yet when I try to tell him what Im upset about(even when it dont involve him in anyway) its always his fault and he takes it personally. I have to vent my frustrations and if I dont im going to explode. Then he finally said that the only time i act lovey in anyway to him is before and after sex. Like the only reason Im with him is because of the sex! If all I wanted was that I for sure wouldnt have had to marry anyone for it! I am not even supposed to carry on a conversation with my x that I have children to! Im secluded from all my friends and he thinks its supposed to be ok. Then on top of this he thinks the relationship isnt 50/50 since I asked him to help me clean, he stated that he is hardly home so he shouldnt have to clean up when its supposedly not his mess!Im loosing my mind here!! How should I go about venting if I cant do it with him? What should I do?! I really need help on this one PLEASE!!

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  • StrangeQuestion
    13 years ago

    I'm a guy and def don't do this to my partner. We share tasks and I sure do plenty of cleaning up, even when I don't feel like it. Because , well, that's fucking life isn't it?

    Refuse to clean his stuff, I mean it's not the 17th century anymore.

    And! If he doesn't let you see your friends, that's fucked up. Dump his ass. There are plenty of normal guys out there.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Well clearly you are both having some communication issues. I do really want to help but you do not give enough information and this could be caused by a number of things. Perhaps your personalities are not compatible. Maybe he is insecure or maybe you are possibly bad at expressing yourself. Could you please give an example so I could further assist you. Its clear you are having trouble communicating with each other but this is still too vague to answer.

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  • boys-are-toys
    13 years ago

    I have never been married but your husband sounds JUST like my boyfriend it drives me insane and i just want to smash him over the head with something .... what i learned is not matter how hard you try , They don't change.. i'm not very expirenced in this but the best advice i can give you is stop trying so hard ... if he fights with you , ignore him. If he want's you to do something for him , Do it if YOU feel like it .. just start acting like he does towards you its the only way to make him see ... and by the way him not letting you see your friends is screwed up

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  • askmesomething
    13 years ago

    why yes you do. Now let me read your question...
    not interested.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    *losing

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