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I'm a senior in high school, about to graduate in a couple weeks. I really like my boyfriend, and idk it just happened.
I always said I'd never be like the other girls in my school who sleep around and stuff, not that I looked down on them or anything, I just was brought up to save it for awhile.
is what I did normal?
didnt you ever watch south park, chef said "the right time to lose your verginity is 17" dont argue with chef he knows his shit
it's not slutty at all. whether you were made from god or nature, 17 is plenty old to be sexually active. it's only the puritanistic society that says that 17 is still a child. it isn't. make sure to practice safe sex so no unexpected pregnancy occurs.
You religious idiots, you poor, closeted fools.
There is NOTHING wrong with this girl having sex. Nothing whatsoever. Fuck off. She neither needs, nor deserves, your stunted emotional baggage.
Honey, there is one reason and one reason only why you're even asking yourself this - sexual insecurity of men. It is the entire reason anyone cares about girls and their sex lives.
Was it cheating?
Was it incest?
Was it rape?
Was anyone tricked or coerced?
If not, there are no moral considerations WHATSOEVER. It is your body, it is your choice, and everyone else can just butt the hell out.
I hope your first time was special, and something you look back on fondly. I hope you continue to enjoy your body - on terms that make you happy - throughout your life and have the courage, strength and freedom to do as you please.
Premarital sex is.. well i dont know.
If you coukdd have got pregnant, then it woukd be your problem.
Honey, you are def not a slut. like tierynxana said you are almost and adult.just make sure you are being 'safe' to avoid a pregnancy scare.
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People have so many hang ups when it comes to sex, and thats why theres still war and poverty in the world, if everyone embraced sex then the world would be happy all the time. Look at all the spree and school shooters, they never got any action. your very normal and dont waste time thinking about it too much because you could be doing much better things with your time, like enjoying life
Yeah pretty normal,at least you lost it to someone u know. I didn't know what I was doing. But now have to live with it.
Normal, Yes. Good, No. I donot call you or anyone a slut but what was the point? Was it that good? Now that it is over, how do you think of it?
Not slitty cuz he's it bf and it's more acceptable now to lose it at ur age
HELL NO!!!
My little cousin is 13 years old and already slept with 3 guys. (Well, I'm aware of 3...)
What you do is you're business I lost mine at 14( I'm a man back off creeps) just because you lose you're virginity younger doesn't mean you're a slut
Just chill bitch, you are fine, even i lost mine with my girlfriend when i was 14!
youre a little late to the party! Remember being a virgin isnt about dignity, its lack of opppurtunity! xD
In all seriousness though, your nowhere near slutty, even if you really like sex with your boyfriend and do it alot, your not slutty. When youre 14 and you cant figure out who the babys dad is, then you are slutty. I knew a girl like that.
Slut is just a term coined by religious prudes who aim to control sexual activity. Having sex is normal.
Hun, you're almost an adult. It's your last year in highschool. Youre not even close to a slut. You lost it to someone you care about. I lost mine young but it was to a guy I was with for a year. & I to this day still love him. At least you're not 13.
What kind of puritan household were you raised? 17 is the average age to lose your virginity. 15 and younger is slutty.
if you dnt feel like a slut, then ur not a slut, if you feel like a slut, then your not a slut :D
I find it slutty but that's just an opinion. I know it could be worse and have met way sluttier girls than that. It's normal for sures.
I'm guessing you're American because 16 is the legal age in Britian so this question just looks silly to me lol
In my contry (France) 17 is the average age for losing your virginity. So normal.
normal not slutty.
legal age limit is 16 so 17 is bloody fine. TBH you might find someone that you really love when you are 15 and therefore have sex. I know someone who met her husband at 14 had sex at 15 and got married when 18 and have been together for over 15 years.
it will be abysmal,
you'll be lying with your little legs open wondering why you bothered in the first place.
been there, lost the t shirt.
Depends on you. Social norms are not the best way to determine how normal this is.
The fact that you're coming to the internet and feeling insecure about this means that maybe you aren't quite emotionally mature enough for a sexual relationship. Consider whether you would be totally ashamed if anyone found out, if the feelings you have concerning it are only positive, if it was something both your boyfriend AND you wanted, etc.
If you feel happy, in control and safe (and are being safe), then you're okay.
naahh when you lose it when your 12 (meee) you are and constantly have it
I think u have ur own necesiities for example, when Im masturbate, I feel like having sex with my boyfriend and it happens since the 13 years!!!=D!!!
No it does not make you a slut, sluts actually sleep aroud with guys they probably don't know, or will never meet again without even considering the concequences. I was much younger than you when I lost mine & it was almost by force, so loosing it to someone you like at the time makes it even better.
No you aren't a slut. I'm planning on losing my virginity on graduation night. which is two years away, but stil it's perfectly normal. As long as he wasn't using you and you two love each other I find it completely normal.Good for you....just practice safe sex
It's not slutty. It was with your bf and it's not like you are sleeping around. It's normal because no one in their right mind waits until marriage anymore.
No not slutty I'm in the same position me and my bf just did it 2and now I'm kind of nervious I'm a slut to I'm graduating this Sunday and going off to cornel ahhhh help should I tell my parents don't feel bad ur not the only one out there