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i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now i've tried talking to him quietly every time we get into an argument he goes back to the past and tries to add his own words to it changing up the story making it seem like i'm a terrible person. her gets mad very easily over nothing. and there's nothing else i can do. his curious about everything trying to find things of me but he hides everything of himself he talks to his friends and all of them tells him that woman are not good and he will come back telling me as if i were terrible.

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Based on 51 votes (6 yes)
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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    He brings up stuff from the past every time you fight? That's what you're supposed to do! All joking aside, I'm not really sure to say to you. I know most people will just say "dump him" but you should try to work things out before doing that. Seriously, people dump each other over nothing and it's sad. You have been together for four years. You shouldn't be too quick to end it, but you do need to talk to him and tell him that the way he's acting is hurting the relationship and you. If he really cares, he'll make an effort to change.

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    • pappusharma
      11 years ago

      I agree with your thoughts. She should try to talk and sort things out.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    HOLY FUCK NUTS, -2 COMMENTS!
    Obviously, he does not respect you and he can't get over some of the rougher parts of your relationship. It is possible that, in his mind, the relationship is already over and he is pushing you away.

    Talk to him, but don't be surprised if the relationship ends sometime in the near future.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    He sounds abusive. I suggest you end it now before it escalates into something worse and run to the hills!

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    You're gonna wanna get outta that one. Asap.

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  • Oreobeast
    11 years ago

    4 years? Come on, do what you need to do

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Ahhh, the under minding bestfriend. Classic.

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  • ThatGirlDanielle
    11 years ago

    Dump him

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    I'd like to hear his side of the story. It's typically the girl that will bend facts and twist reality to guilt trip you. Men are logical creatures, women are emotional.

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  • NeonLighterz
    11 years ago

    That's how my ex was. That's called overly clingy and controlling. End the relationship before it gets worse.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Nobody deserves to be treated that way. When a realtionship comes to that point it means that it is ending and the quicker the better.

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  • Couman
    11 years ago

    Not normal. Not okay. Get out.

    P.S. How does this have -2 comments? (-1 now I guess.)

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