Is it normal or its just him ?

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My friend recently had a breakdown w her bf about how he ignores her when other people are around especially in conversations. I don't think its ignoring but he just wasn't including her in the convo. I couldn't help but almost tear up when I was giving her advice because I can totally relate. My dude seems to have all these types of conversations with people but with me its like he can't have those conversations. I'm a good conversation person but he won't give me a chance. And out of everyone he talks to he chooses me to be with. Why? He also acts so nice and kind to everyone else kind of like how he used to be with me but now he lacks interest and kindness. Not like he's mean all the time but shouldn't he treat me with extra kindness cause I'm his girl ? Its almost like a mini version of the honeymoon phase taking a break. Like he got too comfortable with me now that he thinks his ways are okay and acceptable. I like that he feels like he can be himself with me but I wish I can make him be passionate and effectionate with me especially in public. He jokes around a lot and doesn't take things seriously. He's admitted to not being able to have emotional talks so I have to be patient with him.

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    I'm jealous. My boyfriend is way too clingy. Anyways, the honey moon phase never lasts forever. You have to learn to be patient with him and respect all the quirks of his personality. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you and I'm sure he doesn't love you any less. Are you guys always together? Maybe he's run out of things to talk about. Distance grows the heart fonder, so maybe some space would help.

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