Is it normal or am i just being stupid?

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lately, ive found things about my boyfriend. its been more than 3 years we are togheter. i really try to believe him and trust him. really hard. basicly, in maybe 3 months, i found out he blocked me on facebook. he then told me thAt he doesnt know how it happens and that he hasnt done anything. I didnt understand and wanted more explications he then treatened to leave me. I stoped right away, cause i love him and i told myself it could have been a mistake. at that time, he was going out really often in other city and all because he began university and there were partys etc. i accepted it. it was really hard because im more of a jealous and loving person. ive been hurt, really bad in the past. I thing he is the right men for me..

he made new friends from university, many girls, never invited me to a party or presented me to them. i told myself it was because he wanted to know them better and make friends better. i respect the guy time and stuff but I dont think it is the same...

then some girls just start commenting his pics sayin things like " aww i wanna eat you"... some other people commented and at the end he said nothing but "lol. okay."

all the time, when I try to talk to him about it, he gets really mad telling me I dont trust him and that maybe we shouldnt be togheter because of that...

finaly, this week there was a girl (a striper i might say) who texted him watsup from a number he ddnt had in his cell. she knew his name and all saying she had his number in her cellphone.. he told me he hasnt give his number to any girl and that he was no more going out in clubs and bars. he then said it was probly a joke from his friend or something or just a wrong number...

i need help. he is so sweet and nice to ne. he tells me he will never hurt me and he will love me forever. we always talk about our future and he seems really happy about it...

i just want to know. do you guys think im being paranoid all the time? do you think i should just completely trust him or am i just stupid naive and i dont want to see the truth...

I LOVE HIM MORE THAN ANYTHING... :'(

is it normal i feel this way?

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  • chezycheze
    13 years ago

    I agree I do not think you are paranoid. I think that you found the wrong person if you can't even question him about his actions. You should be able to talk to each other about anything. Even, the bad stuff.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    When you feel this run-down and paranoid, it obviously isn't a good fit.

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  • ninehalf338
    13 years ago

    Ask him about and of he threatens to leave again it's obvious that there us something up and he dosent love you enough to stay and tell you the truth

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    I don't think you're paranoid. Leave.

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  • pain123
    13 years ago

    Too longgg

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  • danman72
    13 years ago

    He's cheating on you face the facts. Guys lie alll the time telling bogus stories. The fact that he always wants to leave you is a reallly bad sign it means its been going on for awhile now. So you are going to have to suck it up and dump him for a real man who won't treat you like that, because the relationship your in is not a healthy relationship at alllllll!

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  • mumbum
    13 years ago

    Ditch him!!!

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  • rraydraa
    13 years ago

    In the immortal words of Seattle's best source of relationship advice; DTFMA. Just do it, find someone who won't go around behind your back. Honestly girl, this guy sounds like bad news. Common symptoms when someone is being unfaithful.

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  • wildflowerkmk
    13 years ago

    Leave leave leave leave leave.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Leave hi

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    He's not that sweet and nice. You don't have urges to leave him for an asshole.

    Because he IS an asshole.

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  • wigsplitz
    13 years ago

    Sounds like he's keeping you for convenience and then going out and doing whatever he wants. Sounds like he has you beat down to a level that you have no self-esteem, no self-worth and think you can't get anybody who will treat you right. Get away from him. Maybe he'll realize what he's lost and change, or maybe he'll just slither away but either way nothing's going to change if you just sit there and let him trample on you.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    well i think deep down you know that he is cheating on you. listen to your instincts. leave him and find a guy who will actually want to spend time with you and not other girls.

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