Is it normal or am i being selfish

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I have been dating my girlfriend for a month now and before we got together we were best friends for years. I really love her but recently she's been depressed, she's having personal issues and all she wants to do is stay home,sleep, drink and play with me game station. I haven't seen her for 2 weeks but I call her every other day. She never makes the effort to call or text me first because she says she's sleeping most of the time. Sometimes she doesn't answer my calls or text me back which makes me mad. I don't know what to do because I keep thinking maybe she doesn't like me anymore but then when I do talk to her it's like nothing happened and she seems cool with me. She also said it has nothing to do with me. what can I do? Am I being selfish? I don't want to lose her.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    She is dealing with this very badly, but everyone gets depressed once in a while, and the worst thing a boyfriend can do in this situation is leave her alone. When girls are upset and say go away what they really mean is "Go buy me a tub of my favourite ice cream and hold me." She wants you there, letting her stay in a slump will make the slump last longer. You don't need to get out of her what's wrong right away, but show her you care, and drag her sorry butt out of the house for crying out loud!! Sad person+alone+Inside all the time = not getting better anytime soon. Break the chain!! Good luck my friend, I'm a girl and know how she feels :P

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I hope she's getting some medical help with her depression.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Talk to her about what's going on. Hopefully you guys got this straightened out. Good luck.

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  • visualkeirockstar
    12 years ago

    Dude u need to get her out man, I mean take her out, she needs some fun in her life, staying home cause depression, treat her something nice

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    It's not you. I suffer from depression well its dysthymia but its kinda the same.
    She's just going through a lot mentally. Nothing you can really say or do but not give up on her. My friends dropped me when everything started for me. After that, suicide was contemplating in my head until I finally started acting on it. I'm getting back to normal finally though! Hang in there and hope your friend does too.

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  • andieandie
    12 years ago

    It's normal that your hurt, and I think she's gotta be dealing with really heavy stuff if she's not answering you. You sound really sweet and she should at least appreciate that you're making an effort to comfort her which is more than most guys do.. If you really love her keep trying, but I'd she's not worth it then.. She's just not worth it.

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