Is it normal..or acceptable..to enable my bfs weight gain?

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I like when my boyfriend has a belly, and bigger butt. He's lost weight recently and it has hurt our sex life. He doesn't know about my weird fetish. I know it's wrong to trick him into gaining or make his food super fattening, especially as he's happer without those extra pounds, but... Is it abnormal or bad to do so if he's requesting it? What I mean is this: he'll see pumpkin spice cupcake mix in a store and ask me to make some (he's really not all that health conscious, eats mindlessly at times, etc).. Is it bad if I make them, make a lot, and he willingly ends up eating all but 4 of the 2 dozen? That's HIS choice, I'm just making it available... Should I feel like this is wrong?

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    This is not just about his happiness or yours, it's about his long term health. Eating 20 cupcakes...that's the kind of shit that will eventually kill someone.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    9 years ago

    Can't he just do squats to have a bigger butt?

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    Its wrong to enable this...he was happy with the extra weight off and your secretly trying to sabotage this for your own selfish reasons... not right.

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  • Goomats
    9 years ago

    Dang. That's tricky. You could just tell him the truth and see what he wants to do.

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    Being secretly happy your boyfriend is putting on the pounds is OK. You can't help your particular sexual attraction to fat men.

    However, secretly making what he eats additionally fattening, or actively encouraging him to eat less healthily, is crossing the line; you're then partly responsible - you would be risking his health for your own gratification.

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    • Koda
      9 years ago

      I can't tell if she's attracted to fat men, to the actual gaining of the weight, to otherwise fit guys with a butt or belly, or to her BF specfically at a higher weight.

      I know that some people just look their best slightly overweight. It's something about their faces and bodies that just suits the roundness perhaps. I think native americans look best slightly overweight. Their cheekbones can be so large, that when they're thin, the hollows under the bones make them look a bit gaunt.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    Weird fetish?!!

    * cries and eats cake *

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    • kingofcarrotflowers
      9 years ago

      But on a serious note, no, its manipulative and wrong, stop it, you said yourself, he's happier without the weight by tricking him into that, you are making him less happy and changing him to suit your needs, not cool

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