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My husband and I have been married for 19 years. About 6 months ago is when we started kinda growing apart. About two months ago he moved out and I am ok with that but I'm afraid he's gonna find someone else. I know in my heart if that happens I would die inside! Is that normal? Am I being selfish?
You said you don't want him anymore, but don't want him to move on. Are you trying to fool yourself or us? Obviously, you can't let go of him.
I so agree with pocket. I've been feeling this way for a long time now and feeling lonely is the worst feeling.
I think you still love him just talk over things and get back together 19 years I'd so good make it more while it lasts
You have a bit of primitivia in you if you get envious of him. Move on. Or just thrash his apartment XD
I didn't mean to sound so harsh. I just think you should really think more about why you're so conflicted. If you really don't want him anymore, then you shouldn't care if he finds someone else.
Totally normal. When I got divorced I was glad to be rid of him. But when he started getting it on with someone else, it made me mad. I think it's more of a territory issue. Sure, selfish but he WAS yours. I think back now and I think I was more discusted than anything. Bottom line, totally normal.
It's very normal and it's also very selfish as well! I've been there, it sucks. It was the feeling of being replaced. Nobody wants to admit their replaceable. Hang in there, it gets easier, it just takes time.