Is it normal not to work

lack of motivation derived from fear of failure, or just lazinesss...... what seems more applicable
I know of quite a few women like this, usually they are all very dependent and clingy, suspicious that their man will cheat all the time, angry and tempermental. All of these behaviors, in my opinion, are from lack of self worth, feeling that one cannot do anything. Perhaps it was because their parents always doubted them, so they simply decided to not even try and pretend they just dont want it to mask the fear. Im not sure, but my heart feels for these women a bit.
If you would like some advice I would try to ask her why she doesnt want a job, the root of the reason, not the cover up. Perhaps you can help her :)

Good luck

She's probably either depressed or spoiled. She likes the easy life, and you give it to her. She doesn't have to work, because you accept that and let her. She's probably never known the reward of accomplishment and self reliance. If you left her, her first priority would be to put out and find another man to take care of her. If that's the case. But she could just be depressed - that's a biggie. Or low self-worth, etc.

Why not ask her? And if you can't get an answer, first I'd say you need to work on your communication, and then I'd suggest pulling the rug of luxury from under her. You provide for your family - the basics. If she wants anything special, things that make her feel special, then she needs to earn it.

Princes and princesses are not just pretty shinny people. They have serious jobs and responsibilities, needing real skills they practice and hone their entire lives.

I am a married woman and I don't want to work either. I think 99% of my office would walk out if they won the Lottery, LOL!

Still, I've always worked and will like always have to, ho hum....

She used to work very good paid job but she was left without it just does not fill wanted

It's not called work or a job if u like doin it.

Maybe she likes to meet her friends for lunch and get her nails done :o)

Did you not discuss this before you got married or is this a recent thing?

Does she need to work, or do you earn enough?

Do you have children?

Yes.

Sure it's normal not to work. Blacks and Puerto Ricans do it all the time.