Is it normal not to want to have sex or a relationship with anyone?

I've never met anyone that I've wanted to have sex or a relationship with.

If I see an attractive person, I'll say, "Oh, that's a hot chick," or "That's a good looking guy," but the idea of touching someone or being in a relationship kind of disgusts me. Maybe it's a combination of my looking down on myself while simultaneously looking down on the people around me, among other things.

I'm not a prude, but I just don't care for other people. IIN?

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Based on 162 votes (96 yes)
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  • ali_roxx

    That's fucking awesome!! If more people were like this, the world would be far less complicated!! People aren't worth the BS relationships, the sex, the drama. Trust me on this one. You can do so much more with your time and life than worry about sex. I am the same way. I'd rather keep to myself + fantasize than go through the mess of being with someone!! Rock on!!

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  • ladyday

    you might be asexual. It's rare but not impossible. it just means you have no sex drive. if you're comfortable with it, then who cares.

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  • Vyzr

    lol, im asexual. maybe you are too. It doesnt mean you dont think people are good looking, just dont want to do sexual things. You might also be aromantic if you think that relationships are nauseating, which i also am. But maybe you're just the kind of person who thinks it will turn out bad and you dont want to be hurt, or you think no one is good enough for you or you arent good enough for anyone.

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  • TisNormalindeed

    its normal. too much drama! it depends on the persons personality. if i hadnt fallen in love, i would just get a f buddy.

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  • SatansBarbie

    The term is "Asexual" and yes, it's quite normal, from what I've heard. However, you may just ahve a block. Keep working on it.

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  • ryanthony

    I feel like I have to be in love with someone before I could ever be with them intimately.

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  • vaprick53

    There are several ways to look at this; You may actually be disgusted with yourself, rationalizing that no one that hot would ever get with you or that you don't measure up genetically wise. Or you could be sub-conciously considering the high degree of contracting a disease. Or you could be introverted with difficulty actually walking up to a person and starting a relationship, or difficulty facing the fact that there will eventually be an end to the relationship. The list goes on and on, but remember this my good chum; You only live once, the worse thing that could happen is you get a slap and get shot down, you need to experience everything to lead a full life (yes even the bad stuff too), and most importantly "Stop caring so much about it!" you need to approach these things with both a desire to achieve and the resilience to say Piss on you bitch/bastard, your loss.

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  • hyacinth11

    Sounds like you have some negative emotional background here, as you say you look down upon yourself and others, "as well as other things." Relaize that addressing these issues is important for your happiness.
    It certainly isn't normal, but it's potentially healthy and perfectly fine.

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  • NavsegdaVashi

    I was the same way!!! Now my hormones go crazy and my sex life is GREAT! :) Wait for the person you really love and enjoy being with and give it a try. Maybe that would work.

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  • kamilion

    i'm not attracted to that many people either. I can go a long time with out sex or seeing someone i'm attracted to. And i don't really like that many people or want to be with them...

    but sometimes if you give someone a chance, and get to know them a little more than whats on the surface, you can be surprised. It can br pretty rewarding.

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  • koolmoedee

    You're missing out. You can get a lot of gratification from relationships or sex. Give it a chance.

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  • Laimis666

    Yes, it's normal, but if you would date at least once, you would like it and want more (I'm sure of it) , if you never try, you can't dislike it, give it a chance.

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  • Not normal. Every human being has the desire for sexual pleasure. Well, not like craving for sex. It's just that normal people seem to have that urge for sexual pleasure.

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  • Are you like super ugly or something?

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