Is it normal not to want serious relationships?

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I have met my first real boyfriend at 17 and we were somehow couldnt have a good relationship. The problamtic relationship took 1 year. And we didnt see eachother afterwards fior one year. But then we restarted and it was a real love of my life. But that took 2.5 years. I was soo devoted to him everything in my life was arranged considering him. My friends always criticised me. And in those 2.5 years i was in another city, travelling very often to my home city where he was ( everyweek or every other weekend). Then i left him 4 months ago somehow.
From then on i had several boyfriends and partners. My ex was my first in terms of love and sex. But now i think i wont be falling in love again, even if i will, it will ecwntually fade. All i should be doing is now date as much as boyfrienfs amd sex partners i can and marry with a guy who is like me in terms of education and so on when the time is right. There are some guys who i am into. But somewhere in my mind i dont want a seious relationship again. Also my ex is still calling me stalking me. I am afraid that pther guys would also be obsessed with me. Is it normal not to want seripus relationshipa and to want sex with many guys in my life. I want to marry in 10 years not less. I am 22 though.

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  • fancyj
    13 years ago

    Plans like that rarely work. Take it as it comes. When you meet the right person you'll know what kind of relationship you should be in.

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  • Akilroth
    12 years ago

    Listen, you shouldn't be getting advice from here. Ask people you trust, not people on the internet. You could be getting advice from a horny 15 year who is hoping to meet you in RL. However, if you want to take my advice,(I assure you I am not a horny fifteen year old, I am 25 in fact)do what YOU want. What do you really want, what makes you feel right? If it feels right, then take it. Don't let anyone else but yourself tell you otherwise. Listen to what YOU think not what society wants. If you want to have a serious relationship with a man for a long while, then do it. Want to keep doing what you're doing now? Then do it. Don't ask what we want. Ask what YOU want. Again, don't take my advice if you don't want it.

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  • DES
    13 years ago

    Get help! There is a great quote to live by; those how make you cry aren't wroth your tears and those who won't make you cry. Don't let some crazy stop you from real love. Been there done that got the TRO to prove it

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