Is it normal not to know what feelings you possesses to someone?

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well, I can't say if I'm in love with her? she's my friend I'm a girl too and I always wanted to be with my girl-friend.., she's beautiful, nice, smart, a kind of organized and a decent girl..., were always together and I always feel that i should be with her.., for her to be safe coz if I'm with her I can assure her security... but I don't know why I feel like being too obsess to her, I am sure I love her and I'll do everything for her, but I don't know how to control this feeling that if she goes somewhere I feel like jealous or being left behind.., so please help! I want to know how do I feel for her,
do you think I'm in love? love that happens between opposite sex... I am gay/lesbian?

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Based on 13 votes (6 yes)
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  • Anime7
    9 years ago

    I can't say I know what love is supposed to be, but it sounds like you deeply care about this person. The only person though who can fully assess your feelings is you. What you describe is a bit of obsession, but since you're aware of it, it sounds like it's not harmful. Have you thought of telling her that you deeply care about her and would like to pursue a more intimate relationship?

    I mean if you're happy with where the relationship is now then simply leave it at that. If you feel comfortable with this person then telling them that you love them doesn't sound like an especially creepy thing.

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    • yoongies
      9 years ago

      do you think is that a good a idea to tell her that I care for her too much..., don't you think she won't think bad or she might feels bad about it? she might leave me because of that confession.

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      • Anime7
        9 years ago

        Well I wasn't thinking you express how deeply you care about her, just like in passing say that you're thankful she exists. I mean if she's your lover already then I think she'll think it's sweet. If its you're friend then I still think they might like it. Again though I don't mean say to the full extent, cause that could draw her away.

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        • yoongies
          9 years ago

          you think so.., well I guess I should keep it as a secret feelings.

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          • Anime7
            9 years ago

            Can't blame you. I recall there was a post awhile here, like a week or two ago someone just talked about how much of a shame it is that you can't love to madness.

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